Okay, this is probably a question that has been asked before, but I need to know what to do.
I'm having major difficulty with a kiss close. I meet a girl at a club, move to an insant date to starbucks or somewhere close (dropping by my house first so she feels comfortable there) and then come back by. My first problem is coming up with a second reason to go back to my house. And I DO need help with that part. But my biggest concern is, even last night, when I got her back to my house, I choked! I couldn't kiss her. There were plenty of IOI's, at least I think. But all I could do was talk. How do I escalate the mood, without making things completely awkward? How do I physically move closer without seeming too obvious? Unfortunately, after about two hours of talking and moving from room to room, she had to go home. We switched #'s, she game me a kiss on the cheek, and
left. She texted me later that night, wanting to do something again this friday. I'm a little suprised at the second shot, but how do I keep the same thing from happening with this and other girls?

Thanks,

Boomerboy

Wow, if you were able to physically bounce her to your place then you are doing very well. She is obviously attracted to you and comfortable with you. I congratulate you on doing some of the hardest part.

First off please stop making the kiss such a big deal. The more you make it out to be a big deal in your mind the harder it becomes. It's not a big deal to kiss someone compared to all the making out, foreplay, and sex.

I know what you mean "How do I get close enough without it seeming awkward?" We've all had these questions run through our heads. The biggest thing is if it seems awkward then you aren't kino escalating up front in the interaction. When you start with light touching and move your way through you'll be kissing in no time. It won't be awkward it's just the next logical step that comes next in the interaction.

While sitting around and talking etc. there will be moments that are awkward when you sit to close and stuff like that. However, start off with some light touching move to hand holding, and then kissing.

There are lots of kiss gambits on the forum for you to choose from if you need one. However, I think you'll be fine just getting close, esclating with kino, and then leaning in for the kiss.

This girl likes you, please don't goof it up and end up in the friend's zone by not kissing her!

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Try the cube game, make sure you require her to hod ur hands for compliance which this chick will obviosly do. As you perform your analysis be sure to look in her eyes and smile as you blow her mind. Then simply ask as your finishing up if she would like to kiss you, she should be totally blushing at that moment and just go for it. She will pretend to be shocked most likely and may not respond right away but she def wont say no.

This is SS material, sonny. You have to feel and believe the words you are saying. You have to get into it and not back out once you've started. You have to use a deep voice and you don't have to use anchoring and dick points, but they're nice touches. Hope this helps.

It's my version of Ross Jeffries' blowjob pattern. I just made it up as I went along, with the basic idea of the pattern in mind. Anyone who memorizes patterns verbatim is wasting their time. Just know the basic idea of the pattern. Here it is (not word for word what I said to her, but pretty close):

Me: "I love the feeling of anticipation. Can you picture [weasel phrase] the feeling I'm talking about?"

Her:"Umm...no"

Me: "Hmmm...how can I explain this? Can you remember a time when after a long, hard, stressful day you just got home and made yourself a hot bath. And even as you walk in the bathroom door you just want to take your clothes off and get in...And you turn the knob and steam rises from BLOW ME and fills the room...and the warmth of the steam shoots through your body like a jolt of electricity...then...there's that moment when you slide in...and the heat is surrounding you and you just surrender to it. You just let go...and free yourself from all the laws society has made for you. In your mind [pronounce it "in you're mine", while ], time disappears. I can tell you know what I'm talking about by the expression on your face."

Her: "Wow, for some reason my subconscious is telling me to lock my lips around your cock." (NOTE: She won't actually say that last part, she'll just smile)

Me: "You know, it's the same feeling of anticipation in relationships [move slightly closer]...like before that.........very [closer] .......first [even closer] ......kiss." Then you may go and do your nasty business, young grasshopper.

And by the way, I don't know if the "BLOW ME" instead of "below me" does anything, but I still just try to fit it in wherever I can cause it makes me laugh. It's like an inside joke with me as the only person who ever understands it. If you leave it out, I doubt it makes a difference.

If you have any questions about the details I might have forgotten, just post 'em and I'll get back to you. I might not get back to you for a while though because, well, no excuses, I'm just like that.