Hey guys
after many tries of success and fails I suddenly noticed that what im actually lookin for right now is a healthy decent relationship

Now the problem is Im thinking 'logically' with what I have , and the funny thing is I dont have much. So I realised that maybe I was ment to be single for the rest of my life.

Now its ok If thats what is ment to be I can be relaxed 'in my own skin' and I wont have to bother trying too hard with women if I meet them, Ill just put them in the friendzone straight off.

Gaming will continue , im just a bit confused , is this way of thinking positive or negative for me ? because in the end as men we want to seed our offspring in this world and if I have that mentality which I love because I dont have to try to hard to get myself a girlfriend it will deter me from mans ultimate goal.


any ideas please?

That is a very negative way of thinking. You need to throw that whole live alone forever idea right out the window! You should read up on inner game and focus your attention there. It will help you realise what you have to work with rather than you thinking that you have nothing to work with. Keep gaming, find mentors, join posts, and don't give up. If your looking for a relationship, then research them. With a goal in mind, you are probably more likely to acheive it. Especially with a game plan. Hope this helps a little.

You're sounding like a total AFC. If you're looking for sympathy, you're not going to find it here.

Look, I had a rough night too. I was doing good but ultimately got shut out. Guess what though, I'm going to learn it, and I'm definitely not going to conclude that I'm somehow inherently unworthy of the success I want.

If, deep down, you didn't want to succeed, you wouldn't have come here seeking help. You're feeling down, thinking about giving up, trying to backwards rationalize it, and now you're here seeking validation for your backwards rationalizations.

Here is a line that helped me:

Things are never as bad or as good as they feel.

Are you for real?? How could that be positive?!?!?!
Anyways, You have inner game issues (I struggle with them to)
Just look up stuff on inner game and youll overcome it