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I figured out that I have been building too much comfort with a girl when I should have been sexually escalating. I got some good kino and I even helped her out one night when she was getting hit on by some sleazy guys. But when I danced with her I tried to kiss her but it failed.
I realized that I need some good push-pull examples to help me out. Anyone got some good ideas? Thanks
that sounds exactly like me with the girl i'm going out right now..
too much confort - sexual escalation? sounds to me like a friend. the same with the guys hitting on her. with the kino escalation she would have came to you herself after getting away of those guys.
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still need help with this whole push-pull thing. Never was too great at it...would an example be like: if a girl is going to kiss you, you stop her and say no, we'll kiss when i want to.
Another example:she sits on your lap but you push her off. Next time you pull her and make her sit on your lap?
I feel like doing these actions may feel a bit strange so I also wanted to know some other good push-pull techniques you guys have.
first (kiss example): wtf? I say this in the best of way: don't be an idiot. It too rare already for a girl to KC and you don't seize the moment?
second (lap): that could work, always being neither too rude nor too smoth in the push/pull.