Ok, I'm an extremely nervous guy around girls - I am quiet, rarely make conversation OK? Well last night, I was in the park with my friends, and since I was a little bored, and I saw a group of girls sitting on the swings, made a move! : D

Casually walked up to them, completely inexperienced, introduced myself etc.. asked a few questions here and there, and in general had a laugh

I didn't get any mobile no.s and I did fail a bit during the convo (ie. I ran out of things to say!!) so they carried it on a bit themselves. I've got one of their msn's however, and I did tell them to add me on FB.

So...in one night, such a shy guy like me, has made 4 new friends by himself and they were girls! I'm happy, and we might meet up together next week I'm proud of myself lol : )

Good work man, excellent way to conquer your approach anxiety. you put the 3 second rule to perfect use and it really is your best asset. I would know since i had my first success like 2-3 nights ago. Got myself a HB8 and my friend a HB7.

Thanks!! And good job on your first success !!!


In particular, there is one girl who I met out of the four who I really liked - she seemed way too hot for me, real good looking girl. How can I go about getting with this girl?? Remember, we've met once, last night at the park and I have added her on FB (awaiting reply). What should be my next move with these/this girl?? Should I ask them if they want to do anything next weekend or over christmas? I really want this girl by Xmas lol Need advice here

Well man, first get the whole group together and find a way to chill with them.

The girl that you like you have to neg her a little and position your body language correctly, put half your back facing her, and just pay attention to the other two friends make her want you. Thats the key.

Then start playfully negging her more, giving her a little bit of attention not so much though, keep conversation up with the other friends. Then you should initiate some Kino by saying if its cold you can warm her up. Or you can do like a little ESP trick and initiate some cheap kino by touching her wrists.

Then keep escalating and escalating until you feel that youve built up enough attraction go in for it, try to think of yourself as a ball of yarn and the girl is the cat, you have to toy with her as much as possible to get her to want you ad enough.

The above is similar to what my routine was to pick up a HB 7.5
Good luck friend

Thanks so much Sharkoff!

How should I go about getting this group together??

Should I ask them to come to the park again? Should I invite some of my friends? because otherwise it will be just me and this whole group of girls and I think that they might ask me to bring some of my friends... however I can see why inviting some of my guys is gona be a bad thing...they might just go for my girl!.. What do I do here?

Ok need help right now lol.

Talking on FB with my target girl, and looking at her page, I can see competition already!

There's a guy, goes to her school, sayin stuff like this:

'oh coool well illl come to ur form at lunch or somit for a chat funfunfun well ill cya dude ly xox'

Her status says she is single - and I'm getting the impression that she is the way she chats to me. And I'm also thinking that this guy is only talking like this to lure me away from her, perhaps getting me to think that there's something going on between him and this girl?

I feel like I want to ask her our right now lol but I know its not the right thing to do!!! I know I should act so quickly with her. Please help me right now, I'm raging with jealously!

Please help me guys

What's my next move? We chatted constantly last night and she told me before going to bed: 'Re: Numberr x

"taa love, you better text me im going off now but il be bored haha x"

That mean she lyks me? How often should I contact her? Should I leave her for a couple of days and see if she contacts me??

ok here we go

first
look up some terms cause your gonna need them
that guy who messages her is an AMOG or an alpha male
since your here you have a pretty good chance of beating him

second
dont text....at least not now wait at least a 1 to 2 days
and then surprise here by texting her saying hi or ha and something with an opener

third
"that means she likes me" line NO DONT FALL FOR IT cause if you do you will be complying to her which makes you an AFC (or a male-yes man/girlfriend)

fourth
and probably most important
INNER GAME INNER GAME INNER GAME
if you DONT get her you should not care cause YOU ARE A MAN OR ALPHA MALE. think about this there are 6 billion people on earth, a few thousand in your town, there are girls your age in your town, there are at least 15 different girls of her caliber DONT GET CAUGHT UP ON HER
you rush at the wrong time YOU LOSE
that being said

fifth
if there are 3 of them
get one or 2 of your TRUSTED buddies
tell him the situation tell him " i want her, she is mine, dont try it cause if you do you will be in saw 6 GOT ME"..... now that i think about it you might want to take out the saw line....any way
IF HE CAN tell him to keep the friends busy will he isolates it will turn a 3-set into a 1-set. if you feel like this isn't working engage the other friends in convosation this should make her think" why is he ignoring me" and you will know it's working if she is fighting for your attention.
when she does reward her by talking to her going to to A3 or what ever stage you feel your in

as for location
anything should be fine except for movies but only if you get something to eat AFTERWARDS( cause then if your stuck on the conversation you can talk about the movie)
i suspect that you cant drive so places that you can walk to will be fine
i think im forgetting something...

but most of all BE ALPHA

no girl is too hot for anyone, mate

Thanks so much for the help.

A question. On her FB status, it says: 'Annabelle is a bit sad at the moment' and yesterday it was: 'Annabelle is a bit... hmmmf '

Is this a sign that she wants me to ask her how she is/instigate conversation?

I might be thinking way too much here lol but I just want to hear what my course of action should be??

Sorry, I dont have any advice that hasn't been given but dude, that Saw 6 shit's funny. LMFAO!!!!