so I was at a xmas party tonight, I was invited by a friend to come out, I got very rude after I drank but before i was drinking i was hitting on the girls hired there to serve drinks there was 3 of em. I had my eyes on this one girl,who i later learned had a b/f and i didnt care. I tried some keno on her and she started getting offended when I started touching her and said to me that she doesnt even know me! i was a little upset that she even said that to me but because she was bold enough to say that to me, I was even more turned to getting her. eventually she told me she wasnt even interested at all. I wasn't at my top this night, I felt I could have done some different techniques, I was told by my wing that I was a little too strong on her.

heres what i did. I started calling the bartender girls "my girls" and making em smile, later on in that night i tried to get to know them and telling them little jokes that would be between us, like you could only get me a drink if you knew the password...then eventually i told the party host to make a tip jar for the girls which they seemed to appreciate and so at that point i tried the keno on that one girl but she just straight up got upset when i went into keno wtf??? what could i have done differently.. I even apologized after i realized i was too hard on her and she said to me " dont touch me i dont even know you"

i apologized by saying tell me, whats wrong, do i scare you? and she said a little bit, i said am i not your type or something??? she said no! so then i was like then wtf there is all these things wrong with you but obviously nothing wrong with me...why do you act so prudish...eventually someone walked in and she just took it as a chance to walk away...i was so frustrated with this girl.... she ended up dancing the night away with my wing which i guess i made him look like the good guy after my rude
behaviour but damn....this was not my night at all

this is my first post btw, thanks