Hey guys

I've been gaming this girl for awhile now, plenty of IOI's, Attraction and Comfort aren't to much of a issue. But she has no issues "cuddling", even around her friends, but when it comes to kissing her, you get that vibe that shes hell shy and is afraid of it....

Question is, how do I kiss her without her going cold? Should i just go for it, like take the lead? or go back and work a little more comfort?

Cheers:)

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"Alrightey then chaps, time to get shot down in flames!"

Im new to this too but from my experiences make eye contact while your cuddling with her untill there is some good sexual tension then if she keeps the stare then go for it. best of luck hopefully it works

In the words of a great pua "don't think that she's not the type to tear off your clothes and fuck you on the spot"

Make sure you've built enough a&c and go for it.

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

Lol, alrightey then, stepping back time it seems

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"Alrightey then chaps, time to get shot down in flames!"

Hey majoraman,

Why is she so shy? Finding that out would help you figure out how to approach better. Two reasons i can think of off the top of my head would be: 1. Bad past experience. 2. She thinks she's terrible at it. Indirectly finding out why she's so shy about kissing might help you figure out where to go from here.

And take Mithos' advice into count here too. You can plant the seed in her head that you know secretly she's an animal. Something like:
YOU: "I know why you're so shy about kissing."
HB: "Oh ya? Why's that?"
YOU: "Cause you're one of those overly sensitive types where the slightest touch feels like an electric shock through you whole body and once you get started you lose all control."
(Voice tone is crucial in this delivery).
Plant the seed, help it grow in her head. Tell her stories about great kisses and describe vividly how incredible they can be. Build up desire and make her want it. Stevo91's right here too, build sexual tension, don't just go for the end result. Chicks' sex drives start in their head. It's how they get to the end that they care about.

She is the type to rip her clothes off if you show her she is and has good reason to be

Fair?

-=JeDi=-

i would give her a Eskimo kiss and get comfortable face to face, make it 'your thing' and then go for the kill. i doubt she will back down!