I see this girl like almost every time I go to the cafeteria in my college. It is both a cafeteria and a lounge area.

Anyway she always sits in the middle of the lounge so that anyone walks in must pass by her, which seems like shes asking for attention to me.

so can someone help me with a way to approach her? thanks

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

What about going situational... Complain about something (be annoyed) and give her a comment not a negative one on her but a general like damn why do they always make the coffee too hot. (She was the one being closest.) And start talking...

dude go completely C & f ...i would go with this line


Hi there, I know I'm pretty and that you are attracted to me, but could you maybe hide your impulses?". Of course this should be said in a funny way, with a cocky look


try it...its field tested by david deangelo himself!

peace

Just because its field tested by a good looking guy doesn't mean it applies here. Don't be a social robot.

I'm big on C&F, and the guy above me is right, you should probably be C&F, because in college thats the number one style of being famous with girls. However, there has to be some balance there. You can't just come up to her and be all cocky if you're a nobody...you see what Im saying?

You can do that in real life..like Mystery says.."fake it till you make it" because the world its a much larger place than a college. But you cant really fake it in college because you see a lot of the same people over and over.

So...to conclude..you shouldnt open C&F unless a lot of people know you and you have a good reputation. Of course you can have an aura of confidence around you which is a different story..which is probably a more attractive thing than C&F anyway..

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"...so it goes"

Well put. The whole C&F doesn't work if you don't look like you'd be cocky and funny anyway. C&F doesn't work as well for me so I just act confident and make fun of the girl while not acting like I am the shit. Sometimes it's something you can't really fake well. It's like being playful, flirting, and teasing the girl as opposed to insulting her or belittling her. I just enjoy laughing and so do women

well I go by that area like 3 times a week, and I am usually with my friend and see people there who say hi to me and my friend. but I still dont want to use c+f as it could come on wrong.

I am thinking of maybe saying hey, commenting on how she always sits in the middle to get attention but then say that shes cute anyway and hand her my phone and tell her to enter the digits.

what you guys think?

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

Well, how long do you plan on talking to her? But you can just get creative and use any opener you want. One that I particularly like is go up to her and say "I've got this one girl who is like stalking me, like following me everywhere tell me that you aren't someone like that" and then go on from there. You have your pick of openers and then just do a few routines and close.
Best of luck! and just be yourself bro

I wouldnt comment that shes trying to get attention.

I'd say something more along the lines of..."hey..youre always here, why dont i know you yet? im nick" and hold out your hand and smile.

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"...so it goes"

well I cant talk to her for that long since she is doing homework, so something brief but will result in getting her number

thats pretty good too nick, thanks

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

I like this suggestion, personally. Since you say you have seen here in the same spot frequently, you can always say something like "So, same time next week? It's a date!" Make sure you present yourself as fun and really upbeat throughout the conversation and this may work... and smile, but not like you have a facial muscle disorder or you're a creeper .
That kind of depends on how bold you want to be too. By saying it's a date, you are implying some stronger attraction than just friends, so base it on how the conversation goes and her personality if you choose to say that.

Excuse me. Are you someone confident enough to accept a compliment from a complete stranger?

more info on it in the list of pua openers. I like it b/c it can open anywhere without sounding like a fake line.

SINCERE COMPLIMENT (Papa)
Papa: Hey...are you someone confident to accept a sincere compliment?!!!

Hot Aussie Chick: Hee...hee. Sure.

Papa: Cooool. Me too!! Hey, you go first. [pointing back to me] Fire away.

Hot Aussie Chick: Haha + {compliment on Papa's clothes or sense of humor} or Haha + {cummon face}

Papa: [if not complimented] Just kidding...[if complimented, skip the just kidding] Actually, I came over here cuz you looked like [compliment +mini cold read].

Here's an example of one of dozens of approaches (even stopping mobile targets with the boomerang effect body language, credit Tyler D).

Papa: Hey...are you someone confident to accept a sincere compliment?

Hot Aussie Chick: Sure. [smile]

Papa: Me too. Fire away.

Hot Aussie Chick: Haha. Well, I like your jacket.

Papa: Ahh. You Aussie chicks rock. You know, I just had to stop you cuz you looked like someone interesting to talk to as you look so chill and calm, and someone just had to come over and enjoy the view of the pier and opera house with you. I'm Papa.

Hot Aussie Chick: Hi. [handshake] I'm [Chick's Name]

This kind of direct approach opened consistently and the game played out well because I'd continue from there with lots of ball-busting, playful kino, and conveyed a lot of fun.

Most of the time, I didn't get compliments from the girls, but I'd get something like this rolling:

Papa: [credit RJ, Style, and Playboy to helping to create this opener] Excuse me...are you someone confident enough to accept a compliment from a complete stranger.

Well the ultimate opener would be giving her an answer to one of the questions but unless your doing equations behind her back or take the same class I'd rule that one out. I'd pick something to say about what shes studying from the humor angle, if its about what shes working on and its funny its going to sound very casual and comfortable. Alot better than "hey let me get your opinion on such and such." or "what do you think about blah blah."