Ok, i have gotten a few girls ive liked in the past no big deal...i started talking to a girl ive liked for a long time just last nite. As i was doing so, its like i went blank, i didnt know anything. So i just talked to her as just sum guy, i am led to believe she has a boyfriend but they just started dating...i am kinda wondering if anybody has som ideas for getting rid of they guy and sum routines to run for tonites convo...help is greatly appreciated

Did you just start talking to her or is she from the past? Not that I can give you the advice you need but it will help others. If she's from your past and already knows you, there is no chance so move on.

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Alright dude, you have officially come into my specialty area. Now if you really like her then this will work. I must warn you, this isn't for every girl and it should only be done for those girls you really like.

Get her to commit a whole day to you. One way to ask and it always makes them laugh is to say "Can I have your secretaries number so I can get some time penciled in?" They always laugh and I garuntee they will give you some time. Now depending on where you're located, if you are near a major city, find the most romantic place you can, put on your mr. nice guy demeanor and be ready to make that the nail in the cofin place because that is where you're going to finish. Make reservations there and use her name. She'll be totally impressed.

During the day do fun stuff. I once rented an aircraft, and then followed it up with a play and then the club. I'm still picking up brain particles from how hard she F&cked my brains out that night.

The goal is what I call "Kicking the bar up" What you want to do is kick the bar of her standards up so high that every other guy around will be a douche bag. That will set you apart. If she doesn't leave her BF then fuck it at least you got to take the girl you like out.

one thing that you never do though is to insult or attack her bf. Then she will only defend him and the last thing you want is for her to do that. Instead do this. Say things like your bf must be so great i bet he does all kinds of romantic things for you and blah blah blah. Why? cause you want to build the guy up to standards that we can never live up to. Then while your saying this she will be thinking' actually he doesnt do any of that stuff' and the next thing tahat will come to her mind will be ' so then why am i with him'. trust me this is classic bf destroyer stuff, ive feild tested it and works like a charm