okay so i'm out in uptown new orleans over this past thanksgiving break.. I'm bouncing from a few groups of girls in the bar i was at and started working on one girl in particular and kept moving in and away from here for about an hour... well, her husband was there and took her outside to bitch her out and when i realized she was gone her friend who actually turned out to be prob. a hb 9 rolls up.. we start talking and we dance some and because of what happened earlier they have to leave.. i get her number and tell her i would get in touch with her before i left the city to go home the following day when i got in touch with here we text for a minute and she told me she had made plans to see a movie with a friend of her's but offered to meet for a drink after.. so i responded with "that sounds good but i'm busy so if i get held up at a friend's i might have time before i leave" well i ended up not wanting to look like i was waiting around and left the city and since we have text some and are fb friends and all that

-here are my problem areas

1. she knows i'm 22 and she is 27 but doesn't seem to care atleast i think we texted some the following day and she asked if i had facebook and befriended me and then commented on my status (that's what led me to believe that) but i'm still not great at reading people so i'm not 100% sure... one thing that sort of led me to believe this is just a friends thing is when she told what her friend's excuse was to her husband "he's too young and i would never" so i didn't know if that was an implication or just a statement

2. she lives in new orleans a hour and half away so if she is interested how can i speed up the process of getting her to come here before i go home for the holidays or is it best to just keep in some what contact till i get back?

3. how should i approach convo with her via text, phone call, facebook? all of the above.. i'm still learning about how to keep interest when i follow up especially in a situation where i can't arrange a meeting soon like this

all in all just some advice on how to read the situation.. see what her intentions are.. if she is feeling it where to go from there at a bit of an accelerated speed if that is thought to be best.. or how to play it till i get back from the break

thanks for any help
-absente

Man, do you have any idea how often people say things like: I would never do... And then they end up doing exactly that about one day later?

It happened to me, many times! I just love that! People are more flexible than they think. If she is into you it does not matter if you are some years younger than her. It may feel like that to you because you are the one being younger. But as you proceed to the late 20s-early 30s you start accepting younger partners. You still feel young and thats human.
I started out being attracted to girls in their 20s and I never saw any reason to change that. I think it is the same for girls/women.

Ezo