Ok, i've posted before about this girl. I havent posted since caz i was freezing her out.To give you a lil catch up of what i posted on this forum was that this girl im talking to was supposedly going to start a relationship with we had a couple of months knowing each other and flirting and shit, but from one day to another she was acting real stupid. I dislike the way she was acting. So we had stopped talking to each other. The guys in this forum gave me some ideas of what to do, well what happen was...

I told her were better off being friends. She questioned me a few times if we are really gonna keep our relationship just as friends. I told her yea. So we started talking just as friends again. She use to always open a conversation on aim and stuff. Everytiime she would see me at work she would say hi first. So a couple of days ago i saw her at work and we were secluded from public and she came and gave me a hug, so i gave her a hug back and she said "i missed you". to me i was like uhh what happen, so me not knowing how to react i said "i missed you too". So she kept on hugging me and I was like ok get off now in a friendly way. But she still kept on hugging me lol. So i kept on telling her i have to go and get back to work, but she still wouldnt let go. she looked me in the eye and i was about to go in for a kiss but i held back (dont ask why). Anyways she still kept on hugging me and told me to hug her back and to hold her. Finally she stop. she left and we had lunch together that day. But that was the end of that.

I was thinking to myself that i can make her into a friend but with benefits. I still see her from time to time, but now i dont know if i should act the same way with her. What you guys think i should do. Really now i dont want a relationship with her i just want to fuck her from time to time. =)

any help please, thanks in advanced

This is exactly what happened to me some time ago!

Well, this girl was my MLTR for some months and suddenly she started to flake. Short version... Freeze out and... She also came up to me hugging me and told me that she missed me.

So the freezeout works wonders. I think that girls are afraid to let a good thing out of their sight but they are too afraid to grab it either. So they try to take some kind of path in between. Sometimes their feelings of lust are taking over and they behave like they wanna be with you and sometimes their fear takes over and they start acting all cold to you.
It is a balance, not losing your interest and not promising too much. To find this balance would be the solution to many problems!

Ezo

Keep doing what works. If freezing her out gives you the results you are looking for, don't change it. Just take it a little further each time she comes looking for you.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Thanks for the heads up guys