Could someone explain the process to a noob like myself the step by step. i know you start with an opener thats about it in my knowlege of what order. i mean i know what negs are and false time constraints but the whole in order step by step process, if that could be explained to me it would be very helpful.

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yea but couldnt it get more detailed than in that link? as in in what order do you throw negs,false time constraints, kino etc. i am completely new to this so idk.

That's the Mystery Method you are talking about. You don't need that hard of a structure, but if you really want to know it then buy a book (Magic Bullets).

You find quite a bit of stuff on youtube by typing in keywords like PUA, Mystery, seduction, etc... I have tons of material that I legally downloaded from valid sites that aren't torrents, which has been very handy and enlightening to me.

(Illegally downloading is morally wrong and you should not do it)

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click in the link and then click on every stage !!! and you will see when to do each thing

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Or better yet. Get the book!

Start reading the mystery method and the game. The Mystery method is a very good book for newbies. It tells you everything you have to know and the rest comes with experience.

I disagree with Plethora. The structure is important... (I see what you mean man but this is a newbie.) After you have learned the structure from the MM, you can improvise and identify where you are in your game. Then the MM structure becomes less important since you understand which parts you can skip or pay less attention to. But in the beginning you need this kind of structure.

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i kno u all r tryin 2 help n suggest books 4 me n stuff n thank u 4 dat but none of u r really answering my question. I mean structure, step by step.

xfman posted a link which is very useful. Click on the link, then click on each of the 9 sections which will open up new pages.
Click here: http://www.thepualife.com/outergame.htm then click the links!

Point taken.

When I started out, I must admit that the Mystery Method stuff really helped to shape my game, and where I needed to go at any point during the sarge. Now I don't even think about it because it is second nature to me. You should definitely learn the structure, but whether or not you do it step by step like Mystery recommends, depends on how comfortable you are at being natural at various stages in the interaction.

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I'd suggest you follow xf's instructions. He's pretty bloody knowledgeable and I'm sure he's compiled soem great info. Realise that you're asking people to spell out for you how to do stuff that is already written in many books and sites, so you're asking a lot and no one is really going to want to go into excessive detail because of the amount of work that entails seeing as it's already been done.

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Well I'm currently reading Magic Bullets and I think it's so much more helpful than The Game or How To Be An Alpha Male. With the former I was just reading Neil's story and with the former, when I tried to apply it I felt loud, brash, and arrogant.

I've written down some notes and to sum it down, you should:

-Start with an opener
-Transition
-Disqualify yourself and DHV, preferably not by showing off. All the while acting like you're not interested.
-Then when you get IOIs, show her you're interested by complimenting her.
-Build comfort by doing activities.
-Finally, seduction.

I hope that helps. I think you should read Magic Bullets too, it's really helpful.