Ok so i have absolutely no problem getting numbers at clubs, but my main problem is the next day, whether I call or text the girl, i never get a response back. what should i say in my text/calls to fix this situation?

the ONLY other thing i can think of is it always turns out somehow that I end up speed closing the girl the previous night (getting a number in 3 min or less). maybe i should build more comfort?

i'd greatly appreciate answers to both questions! thanks.

I haven't been at this very long, but I have had a decent amount of success with women. I'm using this to try to better myself, because there have been certain times when I've blown it, and need to re-learn the things I thought were for the best.

I've been out of town, met two girls, got number and attempted to contact them the next day, as my time is limited. I'm guessing that most girls are going to be freaked out if you contact them the next day. It seems needy.

If you do feel the urge, try to get them along to run an errand with you. I think girls will be intimidated in the wrong way if you are calling/texting the next day. If you appear busy, then you must be somewhat interesting.

As per what I said before, include them if you must. Instead of trying to mutually meet. I for example was going to buy a few t-shirts. Ask her to come help you pick some shit out. You'll get a sense of each others style/personality. And you have so much ammo for negs. She wants you to try on a certain article of clothing? Neg the shit out of her for her taste.

Hi, I'll share my situation with you:

I met a very nice girl in a bar last saturday and we got along great. I ended up getting her number and we agreed to get together sometime. So I called her yesterday (didn't call the next day even though I almost did) and we had a nice little chat on the phone. She said she has a pretty busy week (she moves to a different apartment and gets a dog) so I thought it was understandable, but then she said we could get together sometime at the end of the week. That sounded good to me and we decided to call each other at the end of the week.

So now I'm constantly thinking of her and waiting for thursday when I'm going to call her. What I wanted to ask you guys is that should I just wait to thursday or could I send her some sweet text message so she understands that I'm really serious about her ? What kind of message would that be ? Examples please

I would NOT call her/talk to her until then. You guys had a nice chat the other night, you have a date set up....don't blow your talking points ahead of time. It'll save you some quiet moments on the date. And, when on the date, use kino obviously, use good eye contact, don't do all the talking, let her have to come chase your attention a little. But definitely, do not go
hitting her up before then. You'll look needy

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