Guys.. My wing and I have a great issue with AA. The problem came to surface blatantly yesterday night that we went out for sarging and weren't able to open a single set.. I mean, we have our routines ready, our body language is toned, we know what to say, and although we get several passive IOI's we don't go in to open... I mean, that damn moment, when you're 3 feet away from the set, and you paralyze by AA, your mind goes blanc, and you fucking chicken out!! Oh, it's so hard, when you imagine the moment of the opening you feel confident and unbeatable but when the actual time comes... Guys, I'm in desperate need of advice.. What did/do u do to cope with it? Any advice is mostly appreciable...

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Nazim Hikmet

i am the wing he is talking about...


in more detail what happened:

first we went to this place which is pretty much a cafes-mall-cienemas-bowling-and-other-stuff in one building.
there were few sets and even fewer interesting ones.
at one point a two set passed by and i had hevy eye contact with the one(i think tnt had eye contact with the other but i was busy with my eye contact). then i tnt tells me "go open them in ill wing u". I went blank. they were moving so as soon as a recovered consciousness they were away. I swore to the god of puas that i would open them if they passed by again. then we see them coming back(i forgot to say they seemed
yougher than us(about 13yo, we're 15)). i went blank again.then they pass in front of us again leaving some friends they had met at the meantime behind. Blank!my mind could be neatly described as a deep void. the fourth time i was feeling so much like a looser that i didnt even bother thinking to approach.

after that we left that place and whent downtown to find other sets(we had made sooo many silly excuses for ourselves i cant even list them here). there there werent so many people as we expected but it seemed like it was raining two-sets of HB8-9s. We felt like the god of puas was playing with us by taking away all our courage and sending us perfect openable sets...

later we decided that there was no way we could work up enough courage to open a set tonight and left feeling lower than loosers(at least they played and lost...)

FakeDrake, I just read your FR about your first kiss close. What's happened since then man? You've obviously doing something right, you both just gotta get in there. Did you have anything else to do apart from sarging, or where you down there for the sole purpose of sarging? I suggest having something else to do, ie looking for a new jacket/whatever, and then if you see a nice set, you think 'oh well, I'm down here, might as well open while I'm here'. Might put you in a different mindset and give you a bit more confidence.

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- Difference

If I were you two I would just tease and dis each other until someone makes the move. Maybe talking to a girl is tough but being called a puss is worse.

I like to go out with a wing more because it forces me to not embarass myself by NOT talking to girls

thanx guyz
we ll do both things u suggested.actually we were doing the exactly oposite than u suggested

1.i went out to get a new mp3 player but then we decided to go sasrging instead

2.insted of teasing each other we were making each other comfortable. and i think that was the greatest mistake(that mabye explains the remark of Difference that i did well alone in the Klose and now i chickened out)

Yeah, good points guys. Cheers!

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Nazim Hikmet

i read somewhere on here that even saying hello to a girl when you see her is 1000 times better than doing nothing at all.
remember that. just say hello thats the hardest bit done everything after that is just standard.
good luck guys it happens no biggy,

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Ya, I mean dont rip each other and definetly dont mock each other in front of the girls but remember, a good wingman also makes sure his bud does what he came to do.

Better to be rejected then to give up

Okay I am going to give you some basic ass info, DONT OVERTHINK IT GO IN AND EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT...SHESH!

SF

ok today is my birthday and we will go out anywayz so i think we will clear our names today

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