I had originally written a LONG post, but I realize it can be summed up fairly easily at the end: Get out there and expose yourself to it. No amount of advice or programs offered to you here will do you any good, if you're too afraid to take the first step by yourself.

As mentioned by a previous poster, nothing breeds confidence like success, and nothing breeds success like confidence!

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

before you guys do anything, do meditation, it's the best thing for confidence

hey guys,

I really feel like I needed to get this out.

I have been struggling with anxiety and shyness for a while. I think the standard newbie mission can go a long way, but personally. I think the strongest confidence boosters are my fellow puas.

When your out with your friends, you should be trying to motivate them and they should be trying to motivate you to out perform yourself. Critiquing is great but encouragement is better. In the same way that a toddler is congratulated on the painting they did or the good deed they accomplished, a pua should be congratulated and rewarded in a genuine manner.

I believe this to be true mainly because in my situation, I have a huge problem convincing myself of anything positive, regarding the person I am. When other people tell you and tell you earnestly, that will convince you and more so give you experiences to anchor those feelings.

This will first and foremost develop a strong sense of comradery, provide DHV stories. And most importantly build confidence.

In a world where we are primarily raised by our mothers, we need to find as many father figures as we can.

I hope this made sense to more people than myself.

thanks

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by Chogyam Trungpa

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the best way to gain confidence is going out of your comfort zone, increase how many times u go and try and get women try and try again, if you feel like you will imbarass yourself, you need to get over that fear. If u get rejected, its only positive, the more trys the more ur game increases and you become unafraid and more willing.

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Vidi. Vici. Veni.

I used to be just like this pal, i sympathise....however, recently i found that getting out, especially travelling helps a hell of a lot. i recently went on a ski holiday with friends and people of a similar age, had the time of my life and came back really confident for a reasons unexplainable, but give it a go it is not something necessarily sortable by a program. Cheesy as it may seem, that trip made me see clearer that you get a lot of opportunities and as you can't put a time or place on them, you have to get them there and then.

Serval.

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You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.

Have you tried the program demonic confidence?

Ive jsut started but its really working wonders for me, it gets you inot the frame that every person you approach is jsut another number, which i think changes your perception alot.

Meditation 3 times a day, 30 minutes each. The neurons in your brain start firing at tremendous speed. If done inside a sauna, it builds physical endurance. Your muscles relax. Brain is a muscle. Do the math.

Thanks, a lot of great tips in this thread.

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