Ok let me explain a bit what happened.
Met this girl over Myspace, After obviously having interest in me and vice versa we met at a mall. She was with her sister and friend and suggested that we should hangout that night go to movies.

Things escalated and we have hungout about 5 times this week already. On 3rd night I went to her place to chill and she gave me the talk on what she expects from her BF, and doesnt want get hurt etc etc. Like trying test me if im just there to fuck her and leave. Ofcourse I passed and She was pretty much waiting for me ask her out. I didn't.

Thanksgiving night she came over my house and things got moved to my bed. It was more of Cuddle thing because she wasn't getting turned on enough by just me making out with her and such maybe I fucked up not sure. Sex didnt happen.

Before we started talking she claimed she was 'talking to someone' and I was making it very difficult for her stay loyal etc etc. And she had recently got out a 2.5 yr relationship with her EX.

Lastnight I went to bar and I was just there to watch football game and have a few drinks. She was soppose to meet me there but never came through. I could tell something wasn't right. She texts me "I just got done talking to arnaldo" I texted back whos that and she proceeds tell me it was her EX and she got really emotional and started to cry to miss him.

At this point Im a bit buzzed and didnt wanna Really talk to her, as she was starting piss me off. I get home and she calls me tells me she is going be upfront with me and tells me that her n EX were talking and might endup 'patching' things up and getting together.

I wasn't Mad, but I wasn't happy. I mean I thought I was going GF this girl she was pretty cool overall. She kept asking If I was mad. I said No, and she said 'I wan unexplainable respect for you right now, I cant believe your arn't mad'.

Now what Im asking is.. December 20th her house will be empty for 2 weeks and invited me over lastweek... she braught it up today and wants me go still... Now how should I handle a situation like this? the guy she was 'seeing' before me still Calls her too btw... So seems like shes overall confused doesn't know what she wants be honest.

If I go december 20th I don't want go and get no play be honest.. so would it be fucked up if I braught a girl? Im not sure if she will be with her EX or another no idea.