there a girl im talking to who was definitely into me when we met but last time we hung out i was too nice to her and i started to flaking a little bit. right now it feels like i have one foot in the friend and the other one in the significant other zone. last time i talked to her she seemed confused whether or not she was into me, but it still felt like the was a chance to save this one. do you guys think if i really push the cocky/funny and really take the role of "the prize" it'll be worth the effort or am i wasting my time on something that wont happen?

O this could be tough, your being to nice caused you to lose some of your edge. Thats never good. Let me ask you some questions. How do you know her? how often do you see her? Ya'll go to school together? Whats her romantic situation?

i know her through a friend who she dated a few years back. i dont see her too often because she lives a couple hours away, but we talk on the phone and internet a lot. and she broke up with a guy about a month ago.

U need to create some attraction and chemistry, and honestly dude, i dont know how your goin to do that with her so far away. I would also suggest hangin with other girls, so she sees your desirable, like when you talk to her just do it briefly, cuz you got to meet with other people and have more pressing shit to attend too. That fact shes a couple hours away is really gonna make it difficult. With her being far away, what do you hope to acheive? Like f-close or relationship? The distance barrier would scare me away, but if you think its worth it, best of luck brah.