Im new to this forum so i dont really know how this works but ill just post this and hopefully someone would be nice enough to help!

anyway situation is- im an alright looking guy, and pretty confident. but when it comes down to it, i can get a girl interested but i cant seem to keep her attention. basically i was talking to a girl im really into and she was completely into me when we met. she kinda initiated the talking and flirting but i feels kinda like i drifted into the friend zone. i think a lot of times i just get nervous and cant find the right topics to talk about and things to say that would still keep her thinking of me as a significant other, because i am so into her and im scarred of messing things up (which it may be too late for that). i try to just listen to her as much as possible and try not to think about what im gonna say next so it feels more natural, but that doesnt always seem to work out. i know you guys dont know the whole story here but thats pretty much the gist of it. all in all im just tired of this bullshit and its time for a drastic change in my game. i need some serious help. hook it up guys.

You aren't a challenge. Once a woman knows she can have you, she doesn't want you any more.

You have to tease her and push her away from you to get the attraction you want. By acting very nice and polite, you are sub communicating to her that you are needy and that you want something from her. You have to do what is counter-intuitive, you have to act like the guy who has hundreds of hot women chasing him. When a woman shows interest and is talking to you, you have to keep pushing her away and playfully teasing her. Once she knows that you aren't sold on her looks, she will chase you and try to win you over.

Be a challenge man. Act like you are the prize.

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you anwsered your own question.....your afraid of messing up...

try this get a whatever happens happens attitude.....go in and game the girl and dont worry what she is going to think cause when you start worrying is when the i dont want to mess this up comes into play
and i know you know what that is like..

so from now on go up to her and do whatever and say whatever the hell you want

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