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PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2007 2:26 pm 
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Thanks for the advice. :D How did that date work out for you? Yeah i am just gonna lit it sit for a few days. I sill need to apologize for the way i left though, so i might do that the next time we talk. I wanted to do it in person, but that hasn't occured yet. Don't worry, i will not be buying anything. How long you think i should wait before calling? I am sure we can have a funny conversation, but i know it is gonna be hell to make it last. The last time we talked on the phone, the convo was about 1 minute. If i can talk to her in person, i am sure i can pull this out.


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Dude...
Shit Test
You got to he cause you were this really cool PUA
laid back guy, unpredictable, funny, watever u did,
you did her
so what now? youre turning into something else

Think about this

She was attracted to you in the first place for certain reasons
(by the way something I learned from Style is always ask a girl once you sleep with her 'when did you realize you were attracted to me', why? because it gives you feedback and there isn't better feedback than a woman's, no, not mystery's, a woman's)

So if she was attracted to you for that, then you must continue being 'that'
Im absolutely sure that you turned too nice and too kissy to her, therefore youre getting her bored
change that and you'll see results

END OF THE STORY

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^--- what he said

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She was attracted to you in the first place for certain reasons
(by the way something I learned from Style is always ask a girl once you sleep with her 'when did you realize you were attracted to me', why? because it gives you feedback and there isn't better feedback than a woman's, no, not mystery's, a woman's)
Yah this is very nice use it all times =)
, but since he might have triggered some sort of slut defence or buyers remorse, isnt he sorta bound to fail if he goes on in the same track? Not saying that he should change into a AFC or something. just being a bit cocky funny over the phone can help lower her shield, and as i said before , she then remembers why she likes him so much (guessing he used it when he got laid). If u just call and get her to talk about anything , and not mentioning to meet/ similar, ur not showing neediness.

Thorsten, as for convo threads, u just gotta relax and be spontainious, just talk of that sweater in the mall, the stupid bussdriver that got u to show ur busscard 10 times and do your name signature before he started the buss again, the train that was l8, your neices birthday, freckles, woot ever. just do it as a real life convo. Since u cant se her its alot just about attitude and voicecontrol, rest is as normal. storytelling dhv, negs ioi and so on. making her laugh and trying to spice the storys herself is the key.

well I duno how long u should w8 really, depends from time to time. but id call her during the evening. after work ended but before shes out partying. if u can then call her on a day when u know she wont be going out. thus she can think of that crasy talk she had with you all night =) , mon tues prolly the best days.

Tell me when you succeded :lol:

Oh my date was really nice btw, the 1 thing that bothered me and was kinda moodbreaker though was this idiot AFC that kept on calling her. think its a LJBF guy. the idiot called and found out where we were and tried to come there lol ... so we bailed from that place. luckily i told her to bring a blanket with her, so for the rest of the evening we had a picknick going. the AFC then called like 2 more times, untill I told her to put on speaker phone so we all 3 could talk, (told her I wanted to be part of his funny world to) at which she just laughed and hung up on him :D

Ps. dont appologise for anything, be who u are and stand up for it. asking for forgiveness like i think u were gonna do, its total DLV (u make her forget that it even happend) .. only time u say im sorry , is in a CF way for a joke u just did.

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Romeo, you are so right man. I have become kissey. The thing is, it is in a very small way. Before, i would only talk to her once a week (unless she called earlier). That would be on firday and saturday, and that was just cuz i wanted to chill. Now, i have talked to her 3 times this week. Before, we would just drink or go to a club. Now, i have invited her out for mini golf, and a movie. I can correct that, no problem. To answer the attraction thing, she said it was when we first met. I guess she loves my arrogance. lol. The reason i am doin these things (including the apology), is because of conversations with girls that i know. I usually never apologize, but all the girls i have talked to about it, think i should. They are the reason for the two extra calls too.

I am relaxed in the conversations, but there is a whole lot of miscommunication. She twist a lot of what i am saying. The problem is, I don't know how it is translating for her. Just like the whole fun thing. I have kept my whole c and f thing goin, but she has twisted my words in the last few convos. When she does that, i get to respond once, and then its is all done. However, I think I have you covered Xenp.

Ps. dude, nice call on the blanket. lol. Sounds like it was one fun date.


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homey ur over analyzing everything...don't trip...if you really like her keep gaming her and playing her games..but if ur in it for lust, then i would say cut ur losses and move on. This girl isn't probably woman enough for you..

when someone continuously misinteprets ur words and you go with what they think you said...this means your buying into her reality. If she is always like this u'll never get yours.

ex.
The wrong way
"Dude your a bitch!"
"What why am a bitch huh? tell me?

The right way
"Dude your a bitch!"
"So anyways, i'm thinking about going to soccer game.. You down?

Some call this stuff shit tests but its actually means if you have a strong reality. (most of PUA stuff comes from NLP) A weak reality is when you let others manipulate your decision and you go with what they think is good for them. A strong reality is following through with what you say and not letting anyone change your mind. Its also means to walk away from any situation that doesn't fit you because you know your in high demand and that you don't need to take any of this bullshit.


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vee, i really like what you are saying man. That is a pov that i deff lost on this one.


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