ok. tonight was my second night going to the club ever and it went absolutely horrible. The first night i actually talked to a couple girls and danced with a few. But tonight was AA for 4 straight hours. i didn't know how to go about dancing with them. I would dance by them, get closer and then back out cause i didn't know if it would be creepy or not. On top of the creepy was the thought in the back of my mind of rejection and that i wasn't good looking enough etc. the kicker is that i knew that i would never see these people ever again yet i still bitched out every chance i got. it took me till about 15 minutes before closing to end up dancing with a chick. i need to really upgrade my inner game A LOT. i see all these douches at the club going up to every chick and if they get rejected they dont give a fuck. they have this iron confidence. i wish i had that but without the douchy part. i spent 20 dollars to get in and i had a good time for about the 10 minutes i danced with one chick. i did dance with my female friends but i didnt feel accomplished when i did that.

end of rant.

How about mixing it up and approaching girls at the bar or the just standing around?

I am not a big fan of dancing and just grinding up on chicks...
Imo it is way better/easier to pick up girls by chillin at the bar looking like your havin a good time with all your female friends and jus being an alpha male...run your material...open...neg...build attraction...kino...close...
dont go up to a girl and just start grinding with them....use this forum and study the material and run game...

mate.. these things sometimes happen to me... but im soldiering through and this is what you need to do as well. its all about mindstate first and foremost, you create your reality... just dance around happily with no concern of whether anyone will dance with u and if u know the words of a song playfully word them out to girls near you or people near you and someone will approach. I use to suck on the dancefloor, now i hit it when i hear a song i like and i just go in my own world and i always get a dance from some girl. you need to act like the club is virtual reality where literally nothing matters.. nothing you say or do matters, girls have the same mindstate! alot of them think notjhing of kissing a guy in a club because its just in a club, this is where people do the outlandish! talk to everyone, go from group to group and act like your meant to be there.. if someone blows you off, it isnt so much about you as they dont even know you, they just see you as another guy approaching. but if you get your social proof happening, something WILL happen for you!