What is "The Game"?

Let me tell you what DonScorpio and MacGyver and I think it is. Most of this is more social conditioning. Yup that's right were getting brainwashed again.

Before we got introduced to this secret world of PUA's and Casanovas we lived a life where we did not believe change was possible. We believed that the life we lived at that time was how it has always been and there is no way to flip the switch in our favor. It was a life of self-limiting beliefs. But then some how we learned the world of pick up and we took on a whole new identity.

The question now is are you progressing or are just downloading?

What I meant by more social conditioning is some of us have been caught up in all these products which we don't need. I for one know that half of the PUA info on my computer is useless to me now. It's like when I first got into this community 3 years ago I was like cool these guys are on the same path as me. But now what I'm seeing are people being hooked by all this quick marketing done by some of the PUGS. They get stuck in their own head trying to get better and better. What happens is NOTHING. They go no where.

Some of us are also making "the game" harder for ourselves. We think we need that new routine, new trick, or even that new DVD which comes with the new over hyped shiny e-book. I have even fallen into this trap quite a few times seeing what the PUGS have in store for us.

I know it may sound like the same old story: Person comes out with so called magic pill. He/she brags about it with info on what it does for them and others. Then others get it. That's simple marketing for you and it usually works.

You guys understand now? Remember in the book "the game" by Neil Strauss, the chapter in which Juggler wrote. Do you remember somewhere (in Jugglers chapter) where he wanted to tell Style something but never got to? He wanted to tell him that what he was searching for on the outside was in the inside.

This is what I want to let you know in my post. The game is simple. Let me explain it without big words like DHV and SOI and marketing.

Okay here is the simple game plan which anyone could have figured on their own if they just sat down to think:

1. Know how your society works and how you can come into it and manipulate it

2. Do what is necessary to show your great qualities without bragging about them

3. You should also touch everyone. No not in a creepy way. When you meet people give them handshakes. When you leave give the guy's handshakes and the girls that you've got to know hugs.

4. When you have made friends that you enjoy get their contact information to hang out later

5. If there is a girl you like tell her about your self and learn things about her (her relationship situation) Get to know her like you did with all your other best friends.

6. With the girl you like: make sure you make her do things for you to show yourself and her that she enjoys investing time with you and that she likes you. It could just be her talking more to find out about you.

7. When you feel she is worth your time tell her about it. Tell her what you like about her.

8. When you have let your intention be known: tell her that she is sexy and you like something else about her...give her a reason as to why you too should get together. (platonic to sexual) Example: "Wow. I just had to tell you that you're sexy but what I liked most about you is your passion for cooking. Now you have to cook for us. Surprise me with a dish alright..."

9. If she cooks...ask her to cook for you and then get her contact information to hang out later.

10. Slowly increases you touch with games such as thumb wars or if you know how to massage use that. Don't forget to tease her like crazy!

11. When you two are alone and you feel that she is into you kiss her. If you mess up and blow everything...at least you experienced it and know you need to do something different next. Probably spend more time with her.

12. Take off your clothes and hers to make love to her

13. After sex call her the next day to hang out or set up a time where you can

14. To have a relationship ask her out and to have a FB try to see her only two days a week.

15. Repeat all steps till you have your social life the way that you want it!


There you have it the 15 Magic Steps that I'm giving for free when I should have wrapped it up with bows and sold it for $200 with a 10 hour DVD set of me sleeping on my couch and 3 hour long CD's with me repeating the same things over again.

You see how simple my list is without calling it a new method and selling it? Now some of you may be saying that what about other stuff like negging and time constraints? Well I'm going to say that its all politics and that you can break every rule in the book with enough experience and understanding. A structure is only a guideline not a way to live. Using and understanding the lingo is cool but executing is what we should be doing! Stop idolizing and get out there!

Let me tell you my journey in this social "matrix"

Before:

Thinking I was hopeless and being reactive to get something out of women. Believing that women were so great that I had to pay and do everything for them. Being 40 pounds over weight I never really socialized.

Later when I got into the community 3 years ago:

I destroyed old beliefs and with the help of the PUGS formed a different identity which I feltsome what worthty and proud off. I lost most of the weight and became skinny. I also became a keyboard jockey and knowledge fiend. I read everything and did nothing about it. I was still stuck and insecure but I had new things to think of.

Now:

I am who I say I am. I believe in myself. I have realized that there is nothing new that PUGS and other so called PUA's and Casanovas can teach me. If they do teach me something "new" it is something I have always known but they used different words to describe it. Their new material is just a reference or something to fall back on. I socialize when ever I can.

The only thing new that can come out is what I create for myself in different social situations. The way to be natural is understanding the principles behind everything. When that is possible I can create my own routines from scratch in the moment.

I hope you understand once again as countless people have told you in the past that there is no magic pill. What should be said is you are the magic pill.

Get into the community to change but make sure you don't become a addict.

One last thing I would like to add is my conversation with DonScorpio over the phone a couple of months ago. I was asking him how he did something. He told me there was no explanation that he could give me. There were tips he could give me but the situation that I wanted to copy wouldn't be possible. So he was left telling me a metaphor of some sort.

"I eat an apple every day and I become healthy everyday because of that. The apple grows naturally from the ground. What you are trying to do is create a pill that has the same effects of the apple. Now you may be able to come out with a pill but it will never have the same effects I got from the apple. For that reason I don't know, it may be the way the apple was grown or its seed. So what I'm saying is forget about the pill and eat the apple. It's the most natural thing to do. Eat the fucking apple."

wow. I opened this and didn't even read the first sentence after scrolling down to see how much there is. If you could summerize it a bit, I might bother.
What is the game? The activity of picking up and seducing woman.

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I have to say it worth the 5 minutes your going to read.

I share everything is there, I have to say I have realized that also , in my opinion I could define Natural or PUA or the best PUA in just two words :

INNER GAME

Confidence is everything in this life, not only in this aspect of your life , in many others.

I have tried to communicate these to everyone , but the only way you can understand this, is until it happen to you. And it will happen if you work on your inner game , sooner or later you will realize that.

I just posted about this check it here: xfman-back-and-the-key-to-become-a-bett ... t4584.html

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Definitely worth the 5 minutes. Thanks a lot, that's exactly what I was looking for. It's funny because I just posted a thread about my frustration about "the pill".

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I feel better now, thanks Vee.

this is one of the best things ive seen on this forum

good stuff!

Ok, I just read it after the others recommended it and yeah, it was good stuff.

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I gotta say few men actually earn my respect in such a short time

Youre one of them

Good post

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Hey this is probably the most blunt and honest post I've read since I've been trolling the community. thanks a lot man.

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