Hey guys~

So last night, Thursday night. Down in my neck of the woods, there is this local bar that goes off with plenty of people ranging from 18-24.

All day I was not planning on going out. I was getting lots of invitations to but just didn't feel like sarging at this place. The reason being is that this place being packed with just about everyone I know from my high school days and close friends just takes me out of the dominant tiger frame of mind that I'm usually in when getting ready for a big night.

Anyway...suprise! I ended up going at the last minute.

Myself and a trustworthy wingman rocked up at this place @ around 9pm and got lucky with free entry! So I put my game face on, struck a smile and burst through the door like I own the place...it's even easier to do this when you have been coming here for 2 years on and off.

As always the girl/boy ratio is 1 girl to 12 guys early on in the night. So I didn't bother too much at this time. Later on...

Now this is where things get good! Once the clock struck 11pm, one of my friends rocked up with 3 of her friends...I did a quick scan to select a target, didn't take long. My friend who is a HB8 (her smile add .5) had 2 friends that were a 7 and 8 and one (my target) was a 9!

I was secretly blown away by this girls looks...since I'm new to PU I still felt it a little hard to stop my jaw from dropping, but I handled it well.

So we all started talking, my wing was with me and he seems to get on better with my friend than I do. So I just started the game up projected my voice over the loud as music and became the AMOG.

I had my back turned to the target and was shooting the shit with the 2 others, these girls seemed pretty cold so I opened up a story about my week away with some mates in a $500,000 apartment...they warmed up pretty quick and then they couldn't shut up. Hmm? All this while the 9 was standing there just tagging along, then she decided she had had enough of being the outsider and tapped my on the shoulder and started talking to me (sweet, it's working).

I let the first tap on the shoulder slide. Then soon after she did it again, and then I said "You know, everytime you touch me it's going to cost you $5...this shit aint free you know". Classic. She laughed, genuinly it was music to my ears. She seemed to touch me every time she opened her mouth to talk...I did enjoy it.

So once we had been talking in the group for a while, I decided to breakaway and rock on the dancefloor with some mates for a short while. As I was heading off, she grabbed me again, got on her tippy-toes (cute) and asked if that was the toilets over there and pointed over a massive crowd of people.

I said yeah, and as I walked over that way I could see her reluctancy to push her way through everyone dancing, so I moved infront of her and put my hand out to take hers...she willingly accepted, so I was brushing through everyone making quite a nice path for her and I notice a few sqeezes here and there on the way through, then let her go once we got through everyone. She had a big smile on her face.

After I rocked out for a while I re-joined her and the group. I was ready to isolate my target now.

So I joined in then said to her; "you looking a little flushed, how about we go outside and sit down for a while". She quickly agreed. Once again I was infron and led her outside, didn't hold hands this time but I did look back to make sure she was all good. Now this is where I got to know her. Her personality was so pure. So fresh. She wasn't like most of the girls there, she was innocent. I was almost giving her the doggy-dinner bowl look for gods sake!

She felt comfortable with me now. We were having a deep conversation. After that I found out my wingman had gone home...pfft. Since I had work in the morning (today/now ) I knew I had better be heading off soon.

So after our deep convo, we re-joined the group once more which now included my friends BF and his mate, who kept making strange looks at my target. I was tight with her now so it didn't bother me at all.

I told my friend "I had better be going", she told me to offer to take HB9 home...I was shocked I didn't even think of that! But a good idea is a good idea even if it comes from a girl.

So HB9 was looking tired and was asking my friend when they were heading off...I popped the question and offered to drive her home. She thought about it for a sec, and looked at her friend for approval...haha my now wingwoman had said "yeah, go with him". I was almost levitating at this point.

So HB9 said, "aww that's so nice, bla bla" which throws me off, because this make me feel like I'm being too nice and just blow my chances to be the alpha-male and make her work for my affection.

Anyway, we walked to my car (parked a fair way down the road outside my wingmans place) and I made her laugh a few times, she seemed to have the same sense of humour as me! Then she wanted me to tell her some stories...this is awesome I'm thinking to myself.

Once we were on the road, in my car I made one of the smoothest saves for the fact I have only an FM radio. I said "Hmm, I am yet to install my MP3 player, so I can put the radio on...but trust me, talking to me is much better!" and that triggered a good laugh. I chuckled a little bit just so I can show her I'm playful and not too serious.

We got to her place and I pulled over. She was saying the usual "Thank's so much for this..." and I needed to see this girl again. So I reached for my phone and said "we should definately see each other again soon, can I grab your number?" I knew she'd agree as I was saying this, and she said..."yeah, after my schoolies week we'll have to do something!".

We exchanged numbers, she was a little forgetful with her number so I called the number she gave me and playfully negged her again, and she saved my number.

I probably could have gone for the kiss-close...but honestly when I thought about it, it didn't seem right. I didn't want to be one of those sleazy guys who tried to kiss her a week ago, who she refused.

She was uplifting, and pure, untouched by the bad things in life which made talking to her all the more enjoyable.

Eesshh, this is quite long...sorry if it's 'too long'.

-Anytime*

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It's cool man, my reports are always FAR longer.

Sounds like you played pretty well, man. Well done.

Only like three things I can really say; never ASK for the number, just tell her you're taking it.

'I'm gonna grab your number.'

This shows that YOU'VE selected her, you're not requesting that she selects you.

Two; never doubt for a second that you've got her; when you said you were worried about being too nice, screw that. You can have her anytime you want her. If you don't believe that, it will be evident in your delivery.

Third, yeah, maybe you should be a little less nice But you seemed to do really well, man.

Haha, cheers!

Yeah, I shouldn't have asked for the number, argh! lol.

Well, she's off to schoolies on Sunday, so I won't see her for a week !

How should I re-initiate contact? Is it better to come right out and text her with something like; "Hey, how was schoolies? Let's meet up for coffee or a movie and you can tell me all about it?"

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The first text should be cocky and non needy; don't ask for a meeting via text, do it on the phone. Send a text with a cocky comment and a wink, then the day after call her.

Good going dude.
Sucks that schoolies is in the way, as she might have forgotten how well you connected after a week of getting shit faced.

Anyway, if I were you I would send a msg like:

Hey hows it going? see I still remembered you (optional)! Did you have a good time on schoolies? You should come out with me (and the guys) on ___, ill show you a better time than schoolies

Tip: when getting her number, make nicknames for eachother, so you can use them while messaging, and it will re-instil that connection you had when you first met.

wow textbook night dude. Just wanted to point out another really strong thing you got goin for you. Your mutual friend. It makes it better that shes a girl and obviosly likes you enough to send you off with her.