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PostPosted: Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:21 am 
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Reverse it on here like this maybe?

"Are you shy or something? I saw you checking me out, thought you would've come over and said something by now"


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Kinda have something to tag onto this.

I have a class with this one girl and every time I look up she's checking me out, so about a month now. Now she's about a 9 and in the biggest sorority on campus, the reason I mention this is because I'm the Alpha Male in class but don't want to give any DLV's by approaching her. She's probably use to guys approaching her and I think she likes me because I've never really paid her any attention. Can I do something to let her know that it would be okay for her to approach me or am I gonna have to approach her in a certain way, again my main focus is to not show DLV or come across another Frat Fag.
I used to get this shit confused too until i started watching some of David Wygant. He has a different approach to pu than the conventional mystery method. It doesnt really matter tho bc he explains that what it means to be needy. So I would look into his method, it sounds more suitable to your situation, his day game is real good, and much more natural. This will set you apart from the typical frat fags. just look him up on youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDNyMqGT ... re=related
hope this helps


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Yeah, I was wondering about this one too, the other day I missed an opportunity to open a HB8 at the bus station while waiting for my bus.

I was just standing there listening to my Ipod and she kept taking glances back towards me. at first I wasnt sure about it, but when she took about 15 glances in about 5 minutes with nothing more interesting behind me than parked cars (yeah I know my bad), I realized that I had overthought it and broke the golden 3 second rule. Ended up talking myself out of it. :roll:


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from cajuns blog, have field tested this and works very well

Girl looks at me
I look at her, HOLD eye contact.
If she holds for more than 2-3 seconds I walk over slowly without looking away.
I get in close and in the most seductive voice I can muster I say “You can’t look at me like that and not say anything”
I'd go similar, but a little more coy.

Girl looks at me.
I look at her, hold eye contact for 2 seconds, then give her a little wink and a smile.
She smiles back.
I walk straight over and say hello. Let her work from there.


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Yeah, I was wondering about this one too, the other day I missed an opportunity to open a HB8 at the bus station while waiting for my bus.

I was just standing there listening to my Ipod and she kept taking glances back towards me. at first I wasnt sure about it, but when she took about 15 glances in about 5 minutes with nothing more interesting behind me than parked cars (yeah I know my bad), I realized that I had overthought it and broke the golden 3 second rule. Ended up talking myself out of it. :roll:
Good :)
However I would like to add sometjing about 3second rule from my humble experience- sometimes I loose the opportunity if I aproach in 3 seconds of seeing her because she kind of freaks out (not in a bad way), since I just popped in her face out of nowhere. She did not have time to notice me in the venue so she is kind of flaky. :)


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i personally like this one. its real cocky. david D style.

HB: glances
PUA: walks in... "hey, i dont mind if you check me out, ... pause... but just dont stare... pause.... staring is creepy....pause... no one likes creepy"
HB: (OMG - eyes wide open, drooling)


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not my stuff (copy pasted from somewhere in this forum)

she: * smiles at you / looks at you *
me: Do i know you? / Who are you?
she: No / Why?
me: Well… I thought you knew me because you were staring/smiling at me in that way...
she: No i didn’t!
me: So… you are just a stalker...
she: Haha… You'd wish!
me: Well… you know what… that's OK, i forgive you...
she: No-No-No...
me: You are kind of cute...
she: Haha… yes I am...
me: And I don't mind having a cute stalker....
she: I know
me: It's only the ugly ones that are really stalkers...
she: Yes… of course…
me: Cute ones we just call admirers!
she: Haha
me: Hey miss admirer... I actually have to go now *false time constraint*… but you just made me remember a funny story...
she: What?
then do the usual: insert story, talk some more, insert games/gimmicks/routines, we are having such a great conversation but i/you have to go, how can we continue this? number close.... TADA!



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Hi, I usually use this; just aproach her and say: Are we going to look at each other all night? Or are we going to have a conversation (say this with a smile), whats your name!"


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Walk up to her casualy and say " I noticed you noticing me and I wanted to let you know I noticed you too"

Or you can straight up body language/sign game. The minute you notice her staring at you look at her, flash a smile. When she smiles back (proving that she was actually checking you out and that she is interested) try and communicate by making gestures and faces at her. Then lay down a compliance test and wave her over to you. Seperation without a word. If that doesn't work get up and walk to her and say "I was sick of making faces at you. I don't know about you but normal people like words more"


I have actually used this once and it worked great.


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If a chick is checking me out, I know that she is interested and it doesn't matter what I say to open, but I try to use one of my usual two openers that pretty much tell her that I caught her looking and put her on the defensive:

1. Eye contact while walking over to her slowly so she knows that she was caught, a smile and the question "Why is it that the man always has to approach the woman?"

2. Eye contact, a very sexy, confident smile while walking over to her slowly (it helps A LOT for me to think "I know you want me and I'm even better in bed than you think") Then say "I think I already know the answer, but I just wanted to ask, if you would ever start a conversation with a man whom you find interesting or if you just wait and hope that he makes the first move?"


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And don't look for lines to fucking use.. If you didnt come up with it, most likely it wont work for you.


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"I noticed you noticing me, so i just wanted to give you a notice that i noticed you too"


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Kinda have something to tag onto this.

I have a class with this one girl and every time I look up she's checking me out, so about a month now. Now she's about a 9 and in the biggest sorority on campus, the reason I mention this is because I'm the Alpha Male in class but don't want to give any DLV's by approaching her. She's probably use to guys approaching her and I think she likes me because I've never really paid her any attention. Can I do something to let her know that it would be okay for her to approach me or am I gonna have to approach her in a certain way, again my main focus is to not show DLV or come across another Frat Fag.
No, it's a DLV not to approach women. Ever seen a dog pack or a Lion pride? The alpha's approach the women. The difference is they don't approach the women, lie down submissively and beg for sex. They come up and fuck them. Because they know she wants it.

So come up with that attitude.


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If you see that a girl is checking you out/looking at you pretty often and you feel she is interested in you. How do you aproach? What line do you use? In different places: at the bar, in the shop, in the bus..

Ask her if she speaks english [serious tone]

she'll say yes

you say Oh well why haven't you introduced yourself to me [BIG SMILE]

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Say "hey do you always look at handsome young men like that?"

She will probably say "no i was looking at (something else)" then you say "wow thats (your age) worth of ego down the drain, you are troubble, pleasure to meet you by the way names (your name)".


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