there is a girl, whos not per say hot (hb6.5), but i am attracted to her and i met her and then got her 5 hours later. facebook my friends. she wants to sleep with me, but she says that her family is like taboo dating.( which is fine with me because i dont really want to show any pda toward her at school because im afraid of what people will say, and is this wrong, what would u do) and its thanksgiving weekend and she said that she will probably be with her family all weekend. did anyone have a similar problem, how did you get to have sex in high schooll, we both dont drive, and our parents are in our buisness. where do i go with her to have sex and it will be our first time. any advice will be soo appreciated and i would be thankful, , for you!!

Is this gonna be her first time? or yours for that matter? Like will she want it to be special? I know when i was in high school, at the mall there was family bathrooms which were quite spacious and there was also a room for nursing babies. The doors could be locked on both of these rooms. Sleezy i know, but it was high school. if shes a virgin tho she prolly wont be up for losing it in a place like that. I would say just take her on a nice walk at night to a pretty scenic little space and just lay and look at the stars and talk. then throw some game and start getting busy. only promblem with that is its been cold out lately. Good luck man.

thanks a bunch for the advice!!yea its gonna be both our first, but the problem is getting to eachother outside of school. she goes home on the busses and i have to go to wrestling practice. my brother drives. and i could leave one of the doors unlocked but its not very private because the parking lot is heavily crowded when school just lets out, soo...do you think i should tell her to call me when she knows her family will be gone and then tell my parents i need to go to someones house for a project, do u think this would work, and yea i bet she would probably want it to be special??

LOL.

I didnt have sex in highschool. But good luck with that

thanks, well i guess this pua blessing was advantageous to me

Yea i had some friends in the same situation in the past. sometimes the girl woudl come up & say "my parents arent home till 8 today, u wanna com over?" and thats how it was done. so if any of you 2 got that opportunity u could use it.

im afraid that the chance of that happening are slim, and my house is always occupied, no place to be alone with her. btw what wouldd you guys answer to being ashamed of a girl you are attracted to, im afraid of what people at school would think if they knew what was going on with me and this girl.

Last year I was hanging out with this gurl who had a magor crush on me, and everybody thougth we were dating, cause we was always hangin out together. I told myself I wouldn't date her cause of what other pple would think. she wasn't hot, she wasnt popular. and so we never dated even thought i was interested. but people thought we were dating and it didint make a difference to them. I made a shitload of friends that session.

just because you dont wanna do something diferent, it dont mean you wouldnt respect someone who did something different, like a popular guy wit a stupid-ass haircut taht you'd be ashamed to wear, but he somehow makes it super-cool. pple respect him for the courage he had to wear it, if he truly believes in himself.

if ur ashamed to be with the girl, dont do it! (in public) lol
but if you have enough courage to not care about what pple think and be with her, with a smile, I say go ahead.

I dont know if u actually gonna do it, cause I had the same talk with 1 of my friends & he said "go ahead it dont matter what they think, its you!" but if u can learn from my mistakes then i wish u the best with this problem

the one girl I TRIED having sex with during highshcool got sent to military camp as a result. She will never talked to me again. I do admit it was completely my fault I was a senior and she was a freshman lol


but im rooting for you.

mrfickle.. thats jus wrong ma dude lol
But ok listen, im only 18 and have. not to brag, alot of experience when it comes to "high school sex" Iv had several different partners (some are uncounted for, for reasons.....uh..)
anyway, there's plenty of opportunities. Its all about how you look at it.
Considering its both your first times, its going to be a bit more difficult and theres always that chance of "im not ready for this" or LMR but in this case its a little different. i mean the same techniques such as "freeze outs" can still work but its a little bit different ( i have used some things that have worked about 99.9% of the time)
For the place problem... well... you wrestle so isnt there a place to go when everyone is gone? some kind of locker room situation (has been done)
i rem playing the "my friend is comming over to watch a movie in the basement" said to my rents. taking this route will take longer because your going to have to build comfort with whoever u live with too leave you two alone for a while, everyones rents are different tho.
I has this girl in my basement a couple of times before i took her in another room and did what i had to do.
As a side note, it was also during sumwhat of a "family party" so while everyone was occupied upstairs, i was the same downstairs.
TheLibra said the family bathrooms at the mall, this is true. they are roomy and again it has been done by many. Dressing rooms are also good(the ones that you dont need to be checked into)
Another place i had good experience in is the reseviour, like the lake. Take a walk through the woods, bullshit, and post up where no where can see (bring a blanket)
I would not! would not!! recommend going to her house when noone is home UNLESS they are on some vacation where u know for a fact they will not cme home... Almost everyone has one of those stories wher they had to run into the middle of the street in there trunks if not naked. it has happened to me and listen to me when i tell you, its a good story, but very frightening. haha.
Esp. if your not trying to get urself or the girl in trouble.
Other then that bro, if ur not looking to spend time with her, then its going to have to be at a paty or something like that. Go to a friends hosue that you know wont open his/her mouth.
Its pretty complicated considering you dont have a car and dont drive and stuff but ig you really want it tohappen u will make it happen believe me.... as long as you persue it ya kno.
so i wish you good luck man! get it in while you can and this can be grreat to get your practice up! establish a FB relationship and you shouldnt have to worry about being sexless for a while. (just dont let it out, dont tell a soul!) well maybe your #1 but thats it!
GOOD luck man!

----Vibe

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If iv touched the stars.

oH one more place i thought of. its kinda grimey and whatnot, but effective. The back of an empty movie theater, how?
-See a budget film
-Bring a big hoodie
-Sit in the back
-Figure out the rest

---Vibe

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How is the sky the limit,
If iv touched the stars.

Thank god Holland is a country full of free thinkers.

How the hell can you really enjoy it when you've such a big chance of being busted. Can be very exciting but wouldn't like it as a first timer.

Go do it somewhere the chances of being busted are very slim, don't want your mini me letting out on you because of the consequences

everyone thanks soo much for the advice and happy thanksgiving. yea i think im going to try and have sex with her like outside or something, the woods where only raccoons and badgers would see us. but i have this feelling after i talk to her, that wow , why would i want to have this girl i could do much better. and i am kind of ashamed. if i do have sex with her, i just want to know how do high school girls get once you ahve sex with her. does she do things in front of ppl that i would not be comfortable with.

I think if you want to have sex, it doesn't matter where you do it.

It can be in a car, her house, or yours. etc
Your choice.

Good luck bro. Get her to bed.

lmao your thinkin about it to much now ma dude.
things do change but its all how u handle it, if you act like its strange and uncomfortable, its going to be just that. Act like nothing happened, like you know but know that it is no big deal, act yourself. If you dont make a big deal of it, it wont be a big deal and just make her agree not to say nuttinto noone. Something thsa wont mke it look like your shamed of her. "Hey we should really keep this on the DL because i dont want everyone thinking that your a ____" (this is after you have done the dirty deed obviously) after you say that all or something along those lines all u need to do is fluff that whole phrase, thats what i have done in the past and it never had failed me. If you want to secure urself, then just make sure you do very well in bed, it goes a long way when you need something done, or not done in this case.
A little clue that ou did good. When you talk about something that is important to you after she will look at you with so much interest like a lost puppy, at least in what iv witnessed. And she will do anything to keep the magic sex, after all, its highschool
Happy Thanks giving everyone!!!

---Vibe

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How is the sky the limit,
If iv touched the stars.