Went of a date with HB9 except at the time i wasn't using pickup artist game. I was alpha but also got her a rose and told her she was number one on my list. She found me romantic but when I tried to follow up i wasn't getting good communication from her. I pressed her for a breakfast meet 2 weeks later and this is the part I need help with. She said that she's been avoiding me because she needs to focus on school and she shouldn't be dating or falling for anyone.

Where I'm stuck is I'm trying to figure her out. She said on our date that she's a good girl when I asked if she had brought her fake id. When I tried to kiss her (the reason that didn't go so well is i was too spontaneous and didn't work up to it) she said she doesn't kiss on the first date. But she also expressed a little earlier that she wanted to go out again. Now she says she shouldn't be dating or falling for anyone? Is she looking for fun(sex) only? It's true that I was hoping for love. It's one of my biggest hickups: I get sentimental quickly.

My question to you guys is: If she digs me already which I think she does, how do I work it from this point to create sexual tension and attraction so that I can continue seeing her without her worrying about it getting too serious? And do you think she's down to get down? lol By the way she's 18, hot bookworm working on biomed degree.
Thanks guys, really appreciate it.

PS: i think education is really important and i told her that i wouldn't want her to veer away from that. I also mentioned that phantom of the opera was coming to L.A. next year and that would give her plenty of time to focus. She responded with thanks for understanding (texting) What do you think? Where do I need adjustments? Thanks again.

Golan

ok. so i've had a few days to think about this whole thing and also i've been reading the site a bit. i think the situation's clearer now. i've got oneitis. i guess that's what i get for dating a beautiful girl after virtually no action for the longest time. also, i never phase shifted before the kiss attempt, i didn't dhv enough and i also prob raised her buying temp way too much.
i forgive myself for all this because i wasn't gaming i was just interested in her and hoping for the same in return, but every time i come back to the game i realize that the game helps me stay centered focused and interesting. so it's time to start learning and practicing again and move on. Thanks for reading anyway.

Golan