Ok, this is most likely the most passive sarge I have ever done.

I was feeling terrible during the last days because of a HB9 who is flaking and I was too weak to take it... But I realized that I need to meet other people so I called up a girl that I numberclosed some time ago. Well actually I sent her a textmessage. I have seen this girl after the close but at a party where I was working another girl. So we are kind of friends, at least that is what I assumed. It was quite ok for me because she was not really my type (blond HB8 or something like that). So I have not run more than two routines on her since I was not really interested but did it out of practice. I ran the beauty is common the first time we met and the evil fluffy bunny routine when I was sarging another girl (this girl was the cockblock that time).

So anyway, 2 days ago we met up for a beer, just as friends (or so I thought, I quite enjoy having female friends, girls have so many opinions that you need to hear).
My first clue that something was weird was that we were supposed to meet at a zebracrossing by a + intersection. and I was waiting for her on one side and I saw her arriving from the other side of the heavily trafficed road. I signalled that I was coming over to her side and she nodded like she understood. But as soon as the walk/dont walk sign turns to walk she comes flying across the zebracrossing and throws her arms around me. In the middle of the street! I had to drag her off to the side and reinitiate the hug.
We had not seen for a week or so but still.

So we changed locations to a bar.
Bar: I told her about my girl problems and my flaking ex-MLTR and so on. She was supposed to listen and say "oooh thats gonna be fine" or "you are such a player you had it coming", I could accept any of the two. But she listened and said well, nothing really interesting at all. We talked a bit about the strange ways relationships go and at some point I say something like "Yeah well, there is always others" or something like it, I dont really remember since it was not so important to me. She replies "But maybe that is because you are so good looking...".
That was unexpected and I couldnt think of anything better to say than "Oh thanks, I dont think I am that great looking but hey maybe you are right".
A while later she reaches out to touch my arm and says "Why do you have so thick..." Here I assume she was talking about my thick pullover that I wear because it is cold. "... triceps?"
I was prepared to say "Because it is cold" but I just lose my mind and say "I do? ah, yes, cool!". She is a gym instructur so I assume that she knows what she is talking about.
Note that I have not done anything even close to routines during the entire evening.
I change the subject and she starts talking about her family etc etc, I listen with my mind on other things and basically just agree with whatever she tells me. Until a warningbell goes off in my head. She tells me something about one of her sisters ex-BFs... What I hear is:
"... bla bla and he has this strange air of pure manlyness about him, just like you do".
I was like, eeehhh ok, sure, whatever, that is nice I guess. I did not know what to say.

Normally I count any of these IOIs as 3 IOIs each because they are really strong. One could be a shittest but three in a row is too much!

So as we are walking home I say " I would invite you up for a coffe but it is getting late..."

So how did I get out of the LJBF zone and build attraction without running routines?
This is the reason I write this report because frankly it was not much of a sarge. The thing I did was to keep my frame! I had preselection and social proof. I had the stronger frame. I was not needy. I must have integrated the alphamale characteristics into my normal behaviour. I now act alpha without thinking about it.

Take home message and what we can learn from this:
Inner game is the shit. If you learn to feel comfortable in your own skin then you will be attractive to others. People see these signals. So, please learn the routines and stuff and whatever but never forget to build your identity and practice inner game. I know that it is difficult to see the results right away but I know that you at some point will be glad that you took those evenings to learn this stuff!

Love

Ezo

Nice job Ezo! Interesting read, but more importantly, it includes what everyone has to pay more attention to doing in their FRs: you include the lessons, observations, or nuggets of wisdom you actually got out of it. Otherwise it's just a story...

Thanks man... I agree, without telling what you have learned it is just another way of bragging. That is not the point of a FR. A FR is something you write to share your mistakes or successes.

And I keep stressing the importance of inner game!