Self confident, atractive girl (21yo), no boyfriend. We have known each other for few months, casual relations, innocent flirts etc.
She has a lot of adorators I think so I dont wanna be another "lets go for a coffe" guy.
I dont wanna call - it will look like I care too much (we dont call each other) so it would look like a start of "I begin to try for you since now" operation.

Imo, cool, funny txt msg would be perfect... But I need ideas.
Thanks!

"Me and some friends are going to X on Y night. You should come, bring some friends too"

Simple. Low pressure, and gets her to see you in a more adult sociable setting.

Until you are absolutely sure she would be interested in a Day 2 with you. It needs to be as low risk as possible. Just don't fall into the trap of only talking to her when at Y.

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Agreed, as low-pressure as you can make it. No dinner.

'There is this awesome ice cream shop in XYZ, I dont wanna seem like a loser always bringing the same people there. Come meet me around 5pm, I gotta head off to see my friends at 6.'

I also like to add 'that way I can always get up and pretend I have to meet them early in case you turn out to be a complete freakshow'

Obviously, it helps if you then bring her to meet your FEMALE FRIENDS (a lot of guys get that wrong ) so that you have preselection. I only recently came to realize how much easier that makes things - thank you Mr Lyons

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On we plough.

Love,

Ace