this is my version of the previous thread .. i have a simliar question.

i work at the mall and every now and then have HB 7-9s come into my department .

its true when people say showing confidence attracts as this is what attracts most of the girls to me or i have notieced.

i am my own worst enemy and i know that now . as soon as i notice someone noticing me and i notice that she is pretty hot . i zone out . i start acting like a tottal chump. my voice and body language goes from alpha to hyperventilating, gasping, nervous chump

this what leads to her losing that atttration towards me and moving on .

here is one example of what happened. this girl came to me while i was working and asked for me help. i offered it --- at first i thought she was cute but didnt really care as i was working . ... one of my friends pointed out that girl is sending some serious IOIs towards me. her friends were encouraging her to talk to me. when i noticed that ... i lost confidence and went from alpha to afc in matter of seconds .....


the rest of the conversation i had with her was very awkward and she lost her interest in me when she noticed this ..

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another example of something similar is when i was ringing up a two high school girls. my conversation with them was very friendly. i was acting very social and alpha and sending IOIs to the blonde one. everything was going great until she started showing the same amount of IOI towards me. and i literally lost it. lost my confidence. i went from ALPHA to AFC in couple of seconds .... the conclusion is similar to before she lost interest and left.
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I used to have this problem, When you see her checkin u out, you need to have the mindframe, "yup, she wants me, shes so cute, she's scared to tell me." and you need to tell her i saw you lookin at me. i forgive you, or something to that nature. Being confidently funny with a tip of arrogance will give you the oppostie results of what you are having now.

You will be tha man she wants you to be. Otherwise, you were lowering her perception of you. Shit, you could also be direct about how you love her style and posture or how she is cute. Either way, you will get the same results. because she is already attracted to you..

Trust me, ive experience with this issue, and it is solved now.

Good advice. I've missed out on too many girls by doing nothing!