Big one for me, I'll get in there, see what happening then the inevitable mental block comes in and im the guy just "hanging around" tips?

Yea man. I got a few that work.

If you are ever in a social setting in which there are other girls around and you just become "the guy who is hanging around" that will totally kill a lot of the attraction the women who are there have for you.

I rarely put myself into that situation anymore, because I will always go out with social proof on my arms, but to answer your question I would recommend ALWAYS going out with at least one girl. Even if the girl is your friend, this prevents you from just being the guy hanging around.

If you wanted to get over that really quickly go out one night on a saturday alone and open every set that you see. This will give you the skill set needed in order to open sets when you are just the guy who is "hanging around."

Hope that stuff works for you my man.
Any personal advice feel free to pm me and Ill hit you back asap.

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Yer cool I gotcha, and im cool with the approach i usually head out with a mate or 2 and getting in there is a sinch, its just keeping the ball rolling is where I'm effing up i think, maybe check out for a drink and come back refreshed?

Yea man.
Absolutely nothing wrong with getting away and cooling off.

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