When a bf is mentioned (during a pickup), is it a wasted effort to hang around and just find a new group of girls?

A lot of it depends on when the BF is mentioned.
As a general rule, dont lose hope. Its normally a shit test.
The worst that will happen is down the line you will find out she does have a BF and they are both really happy in the relationship.
If they are both really happy, you can still get the girl, but personally i wouldnt if they are both happy.
Madals

It is as Madals says... It is normally a shittest. It separates the ones who care from those who dont. Are you so weak that you will give up then you are not worth the effort.

I would stay in the set because:
1. She may be lying
2. She may have an open relationship
3. She may wanna cheat on her BF
4. It is not my problem, it is her problem!

If she is willing to cheat on her BF then either they are not happy together or she was gonna do it anyway with someone else. In any case it is not your fault.

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Yea depends when she mentions it.
Could just be a shit test.

if its early and you havent made it clear of your intentions...then its a shit test. Answer back with

You - I need your opinion bla bla bla
Her - I have a bf
You - really? aaaw sweet, so what your answer?

Just make it sound like you arent bothered whether she has one or not.

If she knows your intentions...then C&F works well. but make sure its known that you are just teasing...but a lil serious.
Her - I have a bf
You - thats awesome, he can keep you busy when im not around
or
You - cool, he can make us breakfast in the morning!

etc etc

Im new to this particular forum...but have been doing this some time...
There must be a thread on here, that says something about BF shit tests.

Good Luck
Linxx

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The boyfriend MAY or MAY NOT be a shit test, but if she mentions a boyfriend it most certainly means that you fucked something up. It is usually an indication that you are telegraphing too much interest and you have not built up enough attraction yet.

I have hooked up with a couple girls that had boyfriends that I didn't find out about until way down the line. They didn't want to mention the boyfriend because they were worried that I would quit talking to them.

If a girl mentions a bf during a pickup, make a mental note and assess your game up to that point.

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I disagree. It does not mean that you fucked something up. It could also mean that you are doing something right. It is also a form of anti-slut defense. She wants you to know that if anything is gonna happen it is gonna be in secret.

Getting a shit test is NOT a bad sign. Its a bloody good sign. She is saying "Hey, i like you. I am going to test to see if your worth my affection".

read mm dude. it has like a whole fucking chapter on dealing with, and the meaning of the bf thing coming up

Even if a girl does have a boyfriend don't just bail on her because you can't see yourself getting laid. I was chatting to some girls one night and my target had a boyfriend (I didn't find out until he called her while we were chatting). While she was out on the phone to her boyfriend I had a nice chat with her friends. When she came back we continued chatting like nothing had happened. Don't dispair if they aren't single.

So what that I didn't take her home that night? I ended up having a few laughs with her and had some deep/personal conversations with her. I don't feel that it was a wasted effort at all. Why should you?

At the end of the day, pickup is all about self improvement and having a good time, if that is all that you have achieved at the end of a night then you are on track.

i think this whole discussion basically points to the fact that there is no absolute right answer. it depends on variations such as: strength of relationship, point of conversation he is mentioned, how he is mentioned (negative or positive, regretful or defensive). just get a feel for the situation and use your jugdement. there is no real answer for every situation

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