What are some of the best types of places to get a couple sarges under my belt? Coffee shops? Restaraunts with bars or just into a bar/club? I want to get started with some good in field practice before jumping into winging.

You are right that you should get some practice in. In theory you shouldn't really wing anyone until you can pull on your own. Or at least you have someone with you that can get results on their own.

Bars downtown are great for practice

The Stage
Cadillac Ranch
McFadden's
Graham Central Station

Malls here are good as well, and there are plenty of them. When in doubt the Panera Bread or Starbucks near Vandy are good coffee type shops.

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gotcha. thanks for the suggestions.

The local DMV.

Well, if you need to renew your license or whatever. The girls aren't going ANYWHERE anytime soon. ALWAYS lots of people just sitting around bored out of their minds.

And you open with, "Hey, what's your number?"

"????"

"Oh . . . ha, ha . . . that came out kinda funny. I meant what's your cue number? I'm #_____, blah blah blah . . ."

I like that one. That starts things off in a humorous mood. The conversation could go in a lot of directions from there.

Malls especially since Christmas shopping is here bro, hell black friday will be THE day to definetly sarge, gonna be so many woman out shopping you could ask them something like "hey do you think my niece/grandma/mom/etc. would like this as a gift.

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I wonder if those girls thought of the irony when I actually did ask for their numbers later on . . .

How the hell do you guys come up with this shit! That's hella funny. I didn't get it at first, but then re-read, oh I got it.

You need to get out in the real field from day 1! Try clubs and bars! Clubs are good because you get lost in the crowd and nobody will remember if you failed 20 times in a row...

thats a damn good point. The approach is easy. I dont have to worry about AA, but I think my only anxiety is rolling into a club by myself. know what I mean?

You've never done this? It's a BLAST . . .

Dude, just walk right in like you own the damn place. Just go right up to the first girl, "Hey, what are you drinking?"

They're ALWAYS proud of their drinks, "blah blah blah. . . it's soooo good."

blah blah blah all around . . .

Now you made a friend. "Well, I'm going to get myself one of those."

Always people at the bar waiting for drinks right? Pick on the shy little girls who can't get the bartenders' attention, "Hey, you're trying to grab the bartender?"

"blah blah blah."

"Oh look how shy and cute you are . . . no wonder you can't get his attention. You gotta be rude . . . you know . . . something like this!"

Then you do some dumb thing. "What are you ordering, I'm going to order for you."

"Blah blah blah"

"Woh, woh . . doesn't mean I'm going to buy you a drink. I'm just going to order for you . . . "

"My friend recommends ______"

Some phrases often used:

"Where are your friends?"

"How do you all know each other?"

I don't know . . . there's too many different ways to do this. Basically, women think they're outgoing but hey, we know they are not. They stand around like little mannequins and smile all night long. So when they see a super social guy, who everybody leans on (physically/socially), they stick to them like glue. When 1 girl sticks on you, the whole bar notices.

2 nights ago:

This one girl was doing her trick (standing around) so I told her she looked "rock and roll" (what the hell that means, I still don't know) So after 10 seconds of pleasantries, she goes, "You have a cigarette?"

I go "no, but would you like one?"

"But you don't have cigarettes."

"I'll find us some. . . then I open up the all guys 3 set right next to me. I go to the guy who's smoking and go, "Hey, what's your name?"

"Blah, blah, blah . . . "

Then I grab the girl I just met by her wrist (She's like wtf???) and I go, hey 'blah blah man' this is a good friend of mine, 'blah blah girl'"

They shake hands. Then I go, "She thinks your cute." She's like, (WTF??) but laughing, laughing, laughing . . . The guy is like, "Yeah baby!"

Then I go, "Hey can I bum some cigarettes from you? Cigs for her and me. Then I chat with both of them a little but I can tell the girl is shying away from the cigarette guy. Then the girl's BOYFRIEND arrives breaking up the whole mood. Just to humor the cig guy, I go, "Hey, she's got that super old boyfriend but I think you can game her." He's flexes two thumbs up.

Then the girl introduces me to her super old boyfriend. Then we do our blah blahs. She's eyeballing me like nuts. So when I turn to the bathroom, she grabs me by my arm, RIGHT IN FRONT of her boyfriend. She goes, "Wait, you're not leaving yet are you?"

There's no one way to do it but to me, when I go to a club, I pretend I own the place. What would you do? How would you behave if you owned the club? Just run it.

damn good post bro. you have a really good point. I like some of that shit

When I first got to this new city, I was going out probably 4 to 5 times a week. Fun as hell but . . . I went out of control. I could probably fill 7 or 8 pages of just stupid, crazy mistakes. Girls fighting, crying, pissed off, losing friends, crazy shit with the wing, etc . . .

But in that time, I could probably fill another 7 or 8 pages of just incredible times. Hell, I know that those Super-zen robo-pua's with total control and masterful games go out and just kill it every time but if you just accept the fact that for average guys like us, we're going to have our good days and bad days, you can't help but LAUGH about everything in the end. This is what makes everything (even the stupid ass mistakes) fun as hell.

So no matter what you "think" might or might not happen, you're just going to have to try it out. Just get out and do it. . .

Then post up some funny stories here . . .