Listen,

Focus . . . relax. You don't need 100 different things. I wasn't trying to give you a specific line or a routine. You can replace "museum" for "club". You can replace 007 with whatever the hell you want. The point is to slow everything down and FOCUS on raising your value, sparking sexual interest, and inviting her to a REAL life fun event. To do this, she has to take you seriously. To do this, you have to take yourself seriously. There is no magic method. There is no 100% guarantee.

Your writing style tells me that you're a fast talker. Slow everything down a bit. Read your initial post and then read my initial post once again. You're doing a million things that have absolutely nothing to do with bringing the two of you together.
The truth is, you haven't even begun . . .

You're telling us you want to hunt for deer and you're bringing a fishing rod. You're telling us you want to make steaks but you're buying pasta. Why do you think you're writing on this forum that you want to make this girl your girlfriend (THIS IS YOUR GOAL) but you're just running in circles discussing everything else under the sun with her but never the things that will spark attraction? Right now, you are actively driving her away from intimate possibilities. You're already feeling this . . .

See . . . this is also your act. Drop it . . . drop your ego (you're doing nothing right). . . and the biggest thing you have to drop? Drop your fear. I write these things because I want you to score, make this girl your girlfriend and have a blast spending your weekends with her. Make every conversation with her count. Make it worth your while. You "know" enough about the game to realize what I'm telling you is right. But you haven't done this enough to believe in it. Just do it. Repetition will make you a believer.

And your first act? Well, let me ask you . . . what are the positive results you think you achieved with this type of comment? *add a cymbal crash here, right?

THIS IS a class clown. Class clowns don't get laid. Class clowns are clowns in classes, clubs, board rooms, offices, cafes, and all of life in general. Girls LAUGH at them and not with them. Stop defending idiocy and just drop it.

Day 3,
i came to class in time =). Sat down somewhere in the middle beside some random dude. There was a lot of empty spaces, because people skipped, we had a sub teacher. So i did some work, then there was break.
I went for a smoke and borrowed a lighter from GIII, it was pink, so made fun of that a little bit. It was snowing, so she got a snow flake on her eyelashes, she tried to get it off, but couldn't so i offered help and stepped in. She was a little bit scared, but i said close your eyes and she did it. I tried to take it off and only partially did, since i'm not very gentle with my fingers =) I kinoe'd her this way. And said that i tryed, but some is still there, she said it's ok it will melt away. Then i asked how was her weekend...she said she did nothing on Friday and party Saturday, i related to the party i was on too. Then i DHV with the drunk friend(girl), and how her bf drove into the house (not my dhv, i read it somewhere here on forums) BTW, sorry but that DHV was the only thing i could think of at that point of time. So i also ruined the SPAM by talking about school, but it was much shorter this time, cuz i kind of realized that. I said that i noticed her going nuts on those problem assigned, she said yeah, there was nothing else for her to do. The she finished cigarette and said that she has to go. I asked: Why are you cold? She said yeah, but hesitated. Well, dumb me I didn't offer to hug her, so she left.
Then the class started, i did some work. When the class was about to end everybody started to get ready to leave so i did too, then i stood up and went to the door, on my way there i met up with GIII it was almost like she wanted to talk, but i wasn't ready and i said something lame like how is it going? Don't remeber the reply, but i moved slowly towars the door and got her to follow me, then got she got separated from me by bunch of nerds, so i was beside the door, then nerds, then her.

Well, in overal i did better then previous time, i got kino and DHV in, and maybe a neg about pink lighter. I got less hair IOIs but more body IOI's this time. I think i built up some attraction by that snowflake kino.

Any, comments or advices will be very usefull for me. =)

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Here's a story . . . I love stories . . .

I know this girl who went to acupuncture school. Now this is serious shit. 4 years of time, tuition, effort, all those all nighters, all that lab work, and finally, she gets her license. Incredible. . .

Well now, she's an acupuncturist. Being an acupuncturist involves many different things but basically, in the end, an acupuncturist MUST take a needle and stick it into a patient. This is what an acupuncturist does, right? Now here's the twist. Although she did well in school with her professors watching her, she could never work up the nerve to actually stick needles into people on her own. This is a problem isn't it?

tipaj, you're a guy who is very much into a girl. If you want to be her boyfriend, sooner or later, you MUST get down to business. You MUST take that risk. You MUST get her number. You MUST ask her out. You MUST take a risk and go for the kiss. There are methods for doing these things and I think I offered you one possible way in my initial post. In fact, I just number closed a girl last night doing something very similar to those steps 1 through 5. Regardless of HOW you do it, one thing is for sure . . . you know you MUST do it. . . So stop wasting your time and DO IT NOW.

All those acronyms are useless unless you close this shit. Attraction isn't stagnant. There are more ups and downs in a girl's emotions than the hands of all the AFC's of the World on a lonely Saturday night. You think you attracted her? Good for you. Well, 10 minutes later, she breaks a nail or whatever and she might think of you and go, "What a jerk." The reason to create attraction is so when she's filled with those emotions, you CLOSE. Go for it . . . high rewards . . .

i'm serious about it now, and i will k-close!!!!!! But, there is only one but right now, and it is my cold sore on my lip =((((((((((((( So i have some time to enhance my skills.