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'sex or you lose me, i'm the coolest dude in the world" frame.
hah yeah definitely stay with this frame. I honestly think you just need to relax and not think about it man. Think about any number you've gotten in the past... guy or girl, it just comes naturally. Ex. you both share an interest in bowling... get her number and say we should go do that sometime. Get to know her interests and then you can naturally go for the number. If you pre plan a routine to get it, you've set yourself up for failure. And like they say, you should already have a date planned before you get their number, so there's a reason to call. Then you won't have an awkward phone call and end up blowing it. You can get straight to the point, throw in some cocky/funny, and tell her u have ur friends waiting on you so u gotta go.
Good luck brother
whip-whap-boom!