A couple of weeks ago i number closed a Blonde HB7.5 who has a BF!!! she mentioned when i met her that she had a BF but i just did my normal "whats his name?", "he sounds fantastic", "never leave him" lines during the first meeting. We had talked on the phone and texted since we met but i have been so flat out i genuinly didnt have time to meet up with her. She messaged me earlier in the week telling me we need to get together, i told her im really busy but i can do friday afternoon at 3:30. She said she would be there.
On the morning of the Day 2 she texted me.. FLAKED (lame excuse: the flu but she really wants to see me another time she wrote lol). I know the only reason for the flake was the BF and the guilt-factor, the attraction was there so i replied:
"You'll be fine, make it happen x"
She replied:
"What have you planned, where do we meet"
So im in! That was the easiest flake recovery i have had.
I arranged for her to pick me up after work and we grabbed a coffee and went to see a movie...When paying for the movie she opened her wallet and a pic of the BF was in there!! I thought she is going to put up a bitch-shield cos her BF was back in her head after all my work i put into making that the last thing on her mind. Anyway it was fine, it didnt affect her at all and we went in to the movie...We were the only ones in there lol watched about half the movie and she was throwing IOIs out of everywhere, i was just trying to watch the movie. Play punching, touching, restlessness all the IOIs were there and then my favourite - sexual tension, hook point. So im thinking fine ill kiss her, it will settle her down, and then all of a sudden she jumped me and we were making out!! Too funny.
I always love sarging HBs with BFs cos i see at as a nice challenge where i can make the HBs mind go crazy. But this one was different to all the others i mean she initiated moves on me!! From what i could gather she had been with BF for a year (shes only 19), hes a got a bad case of one-itis, they have broken up and got back togther several times the only reason she keeps him is cos i think she wants a steady male in her life and hes easy and there. I have barged into her life and turned it upside down, she feels bad for cheating but cant help her rapent emotions.
Do i feel bad for one-itis BF? I must admit it did cross my mind when i saw the pic in her wallet but hell no, she needs an Alpha in her life that will show her how much fun life really is (with me atleast lol).
Where to from here considering i havent hit gold yet?
Well i know i will it will just take a bit of time. This case was alot easier then most BF-destroying cos she is sick of the relationship but also confused and unsure what to do. Thats when girls are at their most needy. Im going to hold off contact for about a week (unless she initiates) then start to msg/call her for a bit and neg, push-pull all those teases that normaly are only needed early to get her excited again, then when i know BF is out of harms way ill invite her over. She knows where i live cos she dropped me home from the movie, i couldnt invite her in that time cos my bro was home, but i know she wants it so bad i can just tell. Im a bit concerned she may get too attached and break-up with BF, i dont want that so ill pull out my best cards, show her the night of her life and probably disappear after, ill delete her number and not return calls/messages. That way i dont feel bad. Her relationship remains in tact and she will always remember that one special night. Nice plan ay.
So PUAs my advice for a Day 2 with a HB who has a BF:
- Build her emotions from the word go (with kino, push-pull etc)
- DHV using social proof, showing her your FUN and DIFFERENT
- DLV the BF if needed only if she brings him up (Say "X needs a role model, someone to teach him some life lessons" lol)
and the key:
- Do what ever necessary to ensure the absolute last thing on her mind is BF otherwise the bitch-shield will be up and its much more difficult.

Respect, Excitement

Honestly I think that going to the movies is kinda AFC. Every guys takes girls to movies. I had this HB9 over my house, super high maintenance, and very materialistic. So I told her that we were gona play Monopoly (mind you were 24) so we did that, made out for a little while, and her friends bring it up all the time, as a good thing. Worked pretty well if you ask me. Good story by the way I'm glad to hear it worked out for you.

Andrew

Yes of course going to the movies is a lil AFC, but there is little choice if its pissing with rain!
I had originally intended to take her for a run (yes a run) along this mad coastal path.
And going to the movies can have its advantages: you dont have to constantly talk to each other, its relaxing and its intimate. Your far more likely to K-close in the movies then in a cafe, right Andrew?

Respect, Excitement

With anything it is what works best for you. For me I like to talk and can keep a conversation going about nothing for hours LOL, so the movie thing is not for me. For others, maybe you, it works great becuase like you said you can talk but there are no awkward pauses. You could try a movie at home, maybe in your bed room, where the only HiDef TV happens to be. just go with what works, there are lots of ideas out there but only the ones that work with you, will work for you.

Keep Sargin!

I fucked a bird with a bf after gaming her for a bit once. She felt guilty, told her bf, her bf called her a dirty slut, she had to cancel plans with him to go overseas but at the last minute the aeroplane company told her that she would still have to pay the cost for the airfare despite the fact she wasn't going. Thought (despite me telling her I wouldn't be in a relationship) that after sleeping with me we could be together. Of course that didn't happen and I left her in a shitty position.
So much for that one special night.
Still. After being such a prick I would make a girl cheat on her BF again. Perhaps I would ensure that it would be more than a one-night stand in future though. Maybe a seven day stand. To make the effort she took breaking up with her BF REALLY worth it.

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Hey guys,


I thought i should give you an update on what happened with this HB. Sorry for the delay!

Well as expected she did begin messaging me after this day 2 so i replied with my usual CF material, and just kept putting meeting up with her off. This made her want me more lol. Then i felt its time to take it to the next level, so i amped things up with telephone calls and 'good night' texts.
Then by pure coincidence she was at the same party i was attending! No joke, the BF was not there, how convenient. So we chilled together the whole night and had some drinks etc. By the end of the night she was all over me lol. My mates couldnt believe it.
So i took her home, showed her that special night she had been yearning for. The next morning she woke up in my arms. We made breakfast and then, oh no, she told me she broke up with the BF!! so that explains why he wasnt at the party. Im thinking shit, she is going to want this to turn into a relationship. I literally freaked out - the R word scares me!
Well i dropped her home and she always messages me and calls me now. So this story didnt have the happy ending i was hoping for. Yes i hit gold but now she want more from me!! I feel bad just totally excluding her, so i only occasionally reply saying im busy, hopefully she'll get the hint.

Respect, Excitement

glad to hear there was a conclusion and you closed

enjoy n' roll on Palco;-)

next Sheila i say

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Personally, I have always found honesty is the best policy. You don't want a relationship with a girl, tell her. "Hey your nice, I like having sex with you, I like spending time with you, but I am not looking for a relationship. I would like to keep hanging out and sleeping together, but that's it. I am not a one woman kind of guy. Sometimes not even one at a time." She will either get pissed and never call you again.. or you will have a fuck buddy. Down side - girls always think they can change your mind. In the mean time... it a stead stream of sex with a girl you already like spending time with. Worked well for me over the years. Hell, I have broken up with girls with a similar line and kept sleeping with them for years down the road when ever they or I got the itch.

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