Although this is my first post, I've been following and reading PUA forums for a little over half a year now. I'm 19 and a transfer student at a University.

I've push-pulled, negged (probably too much as usual), experienced AA, peacocked and attempted all the usual material stuff. I'm a shy type, who waits too late to "pull the trigger". I tend to think before I act. With that intro said, here's the problem:

I've been push-pulling a girl (who I've had one-itis with here and there) for a couple of months. We usually saw each other at parties every few weeks or so. At our last Halloween Costume party, she made the effort to MAKE SURE I saw her at one point, and she acts like a 3rd grader around me. That night I finally got her number and wound up staying at her apartment with a few other people (was a little too drunk and decided not to act on anything, talked for a few hours).

Since then, I've had lunch/breakfast with her on campus a few times (asking me out about half of it and walking her to class), although she's been busy and haven't spent any quality time otherwise. I haven't done too much kino.

With Thanksgiving coming up, she doesn't have a car. Her home is the county next to mine, so I'm driving her to my city so her mom can pick her up (she has suspended license).

With a 90 minute drive, I guess I'm asking for advice on how to handle it. What should I absolutely not do and how do I avoid blank conversation while driving?

Any comments/tips would be appreciated.

I'm a shy type, who waits too late to "pull the trigger". I tend to think before I act.

And this my friend is your biggest problem. My advice, based on what I've just read, stop over-thinking everything. Be a little more assertive and don't be afraid to make your move. You are sliding further and further into the 'friend zone'...this is where you DON'T want to be.

If you have been reading these forums for over half a year, you should already know what not to do and how to keep the conversation going, your biggest problem is moving forward with it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Once upon a time i went on a date by far the best date I have gone on in my life and or will go on in my life. I started, she got in the car we had silence for about 5 minutues as I pulled out of the drive way then I said like 4 words and the conversation took off into another dimension. those four words were: "how bout them VMA's" (video music awards)

so basically what im saying is just be yourself, the person she likes and have ideas on how to start the initial conversation and then it should take off.

the reason I bring up the date is I consider it one of the bests even though it didn't end with an F close, it ended with silence we both had communicated soo deeply that we did not need to say anything. so dont be afraid of silence, because sometimes silence is beautiful.

however the goal here is to always progress never just to plain out. so you want to start with attraction and work your way into deep comfort and who knows maybe even boarder on seduction. keep in mind you ALWAYS are progressing ALWAYS get it?

Thanks, both of you. I think I just posted for reassurance, I haven't ever really talked to anyone about PUA stuff. You're right about me sinful, I'm just kinda stuck between knowing what to do and actually doing it.

Put the ball in motion my friend, you'll be fine. Good Luck...

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene