Hello!

Some of you might remember me saying that I had a girlfriend. I was some time ago, quite some time ago, but I've said it. Update: I'm single nowdays. I dumped her. (and not the other way around, lolkthx game).

Under this two weeks I've got loads of girls to like me, and one of them is in love with me. I don't want to have her as my future GF, nor as a ONS. But you get the point here, I'm not newb to the game.

Heres the situation: A girl from my school (whom I meet 2 times a week, same course in school), likes me. I asked her out to take a cup of cofee, with her friend, and it went smoothly. She's into me, and I did the whole kino, DVH etc thing. However, I did not find any similarities. Nothing in common. I know we must have SOMETHING in common, I just didn't find anything. Perhaps it was because she's a bit shy, or it was totall my fault. Either way, this is my problem to solve.

Do you guys (or girls) know any way to get instant rapport, and to find things that we both have in common?

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

You said you don't want her as a gf so why do you care about whether you both have rapport or not. If you really want to build rapport you are going to have to do it artificially.

There's definitely something that you both have in common, you just have to find it.

Oh, I'm sorry. My bad.

It's another girl, not the one I'm currently date:ing. Just to state that I'm not a beginner, so that all newb-advice will be filtered out =).

I want to have this girl as my GF, if I can find any similarities. I jsut have to figure out how to do it, since I really have no idea. Most of the time it happends automaticly

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

I understand that you would like there to be some similarities so you can make a connection between the two of you. ex:
-Do you like films by Stanely Kubrick?
-I love Stanley Kubrick!
-We should have Kubrick day! Order a pizza and watch all his movies all day!

However, you don't necessarily need similarities. You can use your differences that either of you are interested in. Ex:

-You've never seen Clockwork Orange!
-No haha is that bad?
-Yes! It is my favorite movie. Lets order in and we can watch it together... that is as long as you can handle RAPE SCEENS!

Ha ha hope this is touching on what your talking about.