I met this girl two weeks ago...#closed her... we met for tea some days ago, we kissed...we met a couple of days later...we kissed but didnt close...i bust on her constantly, and she is good at busting back...anyway, she is going to another city for a week or two, and I decided that I have to fuck this girl before she leaves because I thought
-1)she might have decided that I have become her bf (because there was some romantic thing when we met for the second time)
-2)Or the attraction can get slack due to the time gap...

so I decided in a hurry to call her and ask her to see a movie at my place (She is leaving on sunday, and I called her on Friday for a saturday movie night at my place, I have been to her place the second time we met, the main reason for not closing being she lives in a student apartment and shares one very big room with another girl). She said she was thinking of going out with her roomate and friends, but have not decided yet, so I asked her to confirm by about lunch time. She does so, today by saying that she will be going out and lets meet some other time...I think she was not lying about the going out thing, it was basically my mistake to ask her on friday evening, not so much time...

now I am confused on how to continue...I am almost sure that if I want a relationship with her, I can get it easily, she is too much into me...but I dont want a relationship, that is why I wanted to close ASAP and make it a casual relationship....

so I am planning just not to contact her at all for one week when she is away because if I contact her a couple of times, that can signal "I am courting you" or "I am desperate".... but at the same time I am afraid not contacting her might cool the attraction and might make her think "hmmm.. i didnt come to his place for a movie (sex), and then he stopped contacting me..."

so how do you guys think I should handle this?