A long one here...

okay... for the past 8 months, I've been single and dateless (till Solomon II helped me get back in the game, props to him!). Well, I sort of have this problem now...

Theres this Asian girl in one of my classes at college. She's trying SO hard to impress me and even asked me for MY number the first day I met her, like 3 weeks ago. I made the STUPID mistake of offering to take her to class one day when it was raining, on msn. she said OK OK OK! and she was cmiling the whole damn way... asking me retarded questions too all the time. First of all, I don't have a problem with Asians, but this girl... wow, her English is SO messed up, she doesnt even sound normal... stuff like "what u say?" "what do after?"... EVERYTIME i come online on MSN, she messages me...

looks wise, she's a 5 or 6 at best. Not fat or anything, just absolutely not my type... at all PERIOD....

this just in...

GIRL: You exam now?
(reply 20mins later)
ME: yeah.
GIRL: hehehe... me tooo! very good!
ME: ok.
GIRL: very windy today, cold!
(me trying to be blunt and getting rid of her)
ME: windy, not cold.
GIRL: hehehe... you are so stronger
(ok... what??????)
ME: err...ok?
GIRL: k e k e ! when u are stronger!
GIRL: i go back Hong Kong 25!
ME: great, good for you. bye!
GIRL: I buy you gift! what you want!
ME: thanks, but I'm good, dont need anything.
GIRL: i know u good! hehe
GIRL: what you want



WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!................... HELP ME!!!!!! I just dont wanna say "get the fuck outta my face bitch!"... i'm not that mean... lol

I just dont wanna say "get the fuck outta my face bitch!"... i'm not that mean... lol

I wouldn't put it in 'those' words, but you need to get the message across. Stop worrying about her feelings. If the tables were turned, she would have no problem telling you to F off.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

I'd say that the "leave her better than you found her" rule still applies.

You've got quite the dilemma here, phoenix. Another option you have is to (1) have sex with her but suck in bed so she loses attraction, but given your already complete lack of attraction for her it may be unethical.

Or you could (2) give her that whole "I like you, but I don't LIKE like you. LJBF" speech.

Or you could (3) stay out of touch and wait until she gets the message. In my experience this works best with more reasonable girls that aren't as emotional volatile.

Try and steer her away from the " ME SO HORNY" talk. Definitely give her the message that you aren't interested. You could flat out say to her " I don't know what you're looking for here, but I don't want anything between us." Or you could simply ignore her and not be so nice.

I already had this problem, yea the girl even gave me candys for valentine's day... and I wasn't talking to her very much. So I stayed friendly with her and I just said to her that i already had a girl in mind. It works pretty well, because when girls have a guy in mind, its for a long time, so they understand.

yeah.... well it worked for me

thanks for the advice guys! appreciate it.

Thing is, she asked me if I'm single, like on the FIRST day I gave her my MSN email... like wtf...? I said yes, not thinking anything of it when I replied.

Thing is, she didn't "actually" say she's interested in me, but the stuff she's doing is definately indicating that. I mean, wtf, she sms's me random shit, all the time. Even I don't reply!

I don't know what to say to not sound so full of myself, thinking she likes me... but hell, trust me, like I rather sleep with a tranny then her... LOL! so the sleep with her and suck in bed wont do to good, she'd probably still not get the message.