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Sounds like you were already in the friend zone, or you haven't built attraction at all. Most girls will be "friendly", so you HAVE TO not assume she's attracted until you get definate proof. This is the friend zone trap #1; thinking that she's attracted, while in fact she's just being nice.
Here's what I think you should do, but then again, other people may have more experience with this kind of situation...
1. Try to built some attraction, by proving your value.
2. Then give her an ultimatum; if she rejects your advances again, just tell her (in your own words) that if she doesn't want to move further then you've got no reason to be there. (And of course leave if she still refuses).
Of course this is either moving you forward, or ending all contact with her.
There is also the other option, which is making her your friend, and that's that.
Thanks for the reply.
I guess I should also point out this is a girl in my hs class. She's a "goodie goodie" type girl. Another who likes her asked for a hug and she said no. I made a joke about and said he should have just did it. Her reply was "no, then I would have pushed him away" What works with these kind of girls?