Hello..ive just joined this forum and looking for some advice...
Heres my story... A couple of months ago I had a motocross accident which kept me confined to the house for a few weeks..during this time as I was bored I opened a myspace and contacted some girls..
I started chatting online to a girl who is fairly local to me. Everyday we would exchange some messages and after a few weeks I gave her my num.. I would crack a few jokes and get some laughs out of her and she was pretty much allways available to contact and was allways in good form and interested in what I was doing and how i was feeling etc...
Our method of contact was mostly txt messages and she would email me from work during the day. I thought it would be a good idea to move it on to a phone call so I asked her and she said yeah ok... On two occasions I sent her a txt sayin hey make urself less busy at such a time so I can give u a call...I didnt get any replys so I didnt call..

After these occasions I brushed it off as if I wasnt bothered and carried on contacting her as I allways have done..
After a few weeks I again mentioned a call would be a good idea and she again siad yea sure. This time I called and got no ans. later that night I sent txt sayin..hey im bit dissapointed but wont let it spoil the weekend have fun etc. I got no reply.

Lately I havent been hearing from her much but from time to time she will send a txt asking how I am etc..

I sent her a txt one time asking how come you've been so quiet lately and
she started to realy let things fly on how her little kid is a bit sick..she is having trouble with her ex.. shes not moving into the house she though she was going to get...and her grandpa is dying and that shes feeling low. I tryed to confort her and told her too keep her chip up etc got the impression she was realy down.

Since hearing this I thought be best to lay off a bit and just sent one or two txts of good humour.... But on her face book and myspace shes writing interesting stuff and funny comments and flirting with guys comments etc.. It realy bugged me so I sent her a mail saying..Hey this is my last msg cant go online anymore not a big deal cos you have my num etc etc..

I havent heard from her since but I do like her and I like a challenge and I want to gain her interest again..

Hope you guys can help...thanks

Ok as im such a fast learner I have decided to scrap this girl..as much as I like her im finding why waste my time on this girl? I just got a fresh new girls number to play with.. She is another online girl which I recently started chatting with.. This time round I want the girl to ring me.

Heres how its going so far today...

Sent a humor txt early today...

(Me) Creatively complete this poem..Roses are red Violets are....

(The Girl) Sorry I've just seen you message I was out last night, do you still want me to complete this poem??

I didnt reply....

(The Girl) Ok rose are red violets are blue.... etc

(Me) That wasnt very creative! 2 outa 10..more effort required

(The Girl) What r u a school teacher? Lol. Im not v poetic so afraid ur not gona get any better. So whats your effort?

(Me after some time) I love writing poetry, I do it all the time
Check this out. Roses are red violets are blue..last night I had a dream about............................ a can of coke

(The Girl) Yeah can see u've got a natural ability.. Tho mine is definitely better!

(Me) I agree with you, if u agree to disagree? Thats a agreement!

(The Girl) Yeah Lol, i think we do have an agreement. Hows ur wknd goin?

(Me after sometime) 100% just headin home then goin out, tho i shouldn't!
How about you

(The girl) Good wknd so far, in a hotel in xxxxxx having a few bevs before we head out...Will b another big sesh whats the night life like in xxxxxx?

(Me after some time) Wow u hinting hotels allready;) yea its good! not as busy as city center! which is a plus, u can get a pint and talk to ur mates at same time, ya get me

(The Girl) Lol..not hinting, i wouldnt need 2 would just tell u. Yea know what u mean about a pint,seat and a chat...Ur showin ur age!! Lol.
Though thats what I prefer 2, but just have to go with a gay clubs tonight...

(Me) Gay clubs? Interesting I remember going to some of them, but not as a gay. Some great girls there.ones looking for a good night with out the hit on hassel

(The Girl) Yeah, but I wouldnt mind being hit on but not by girls, which happend last night! Ah well gotta let my gay mates see gay xxxx so I dont mind its all good fun!

I havent replyed to this one as its sat night an Ive more important stuff on!



Ok guys this is my first ever time using the PUA style approach...
All this took course over the entire day... How did I do? comments and advice welcome. Many thanks.

very nicely done. good call out on the hotels. nice transition to going out and such.

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Thanks... I tryed not to over do it and be myself at same time..will keep you guys posted if interested??? Also on the first girl scenario,, I just noticed on her face book,,

Her Status... Xxxx is at home..feet up..bla bla bla is on tv and Ive a nice bottle of wine lol all i need is??

I commented on her status with.... Thats too easy!!!...A bottle opener!!!

She commented back saying nope! and commented on my status...

I commented again with this.....

I refuse to be used as a tool to make your social networking web site more interesting!! I have heaps of tools for various different jobs but I wouldnt dream of using one for such a job!! Thats just mean!!

Havent checked if she replyed or not... how was that approach?? thanks guys.

take it to the next step. try and setup a date.

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-dw3llz

cheers... This is my first time approaching it pua style so im going too see if its possible to get her to call or even set up a date.

Any tips on how to apologize to a girl if your being an ass without sounding like a wuss??