Amen to that. You are a MAN dammit and you have NEEDS. only AFCs hide there needs which is exactly why they get nothing.

Haha... "arises"

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I'd like to add, in the shower after the gym
(I am NOT talking from experience there)

Airman...dont be ashamed...i think that all the people that are poking fun at you on here (no pun intended) for asking the question, have been in the same situation at least once in their lives....

heres what to do...

If in public: Waistband/belt it, think "un-sexy" thoughts (your mom naked, etc.), and stop doing what your doing if need be (ie making out, grinding on the dancefloor, etc.) Not only will it save you from being embarassed, but the way I look at it...is its a subtle neg of sorts...cuz the chick will be like WTF?! I have my ass in this guys pelvis or my toungue down his throat...why isnt he arroused??!! Im going to have to take this to the next level/day/date.

If in private: i know this sounds funny...but poke into her, wherever you may be on her body at the time. Dont be scared...she knows whats up.... Cuz honnestly, girls aren't stupud...they know how men's bodies work...she will be like...whoa! Im turning this guy on...I feel hot right now....and the big upside, is you never know where that will lead. Hopefully the "home run" is not far off...

yeah you guys are right I should'nt be ashamed of having a raging boner... from now on i'm gonna stop trying to hide it (depends on situation of course) and just have a good time... Thx for the help guys

Screw the situation. Have a boner 24/7 everywhere you go. You might get casted for one of those enzyte commercials and make some bank that way.

OK... Don't actually show off your stick in a situation like a board room meeting, but push your comfort zone boundaries somehow.

I have a friend that says now he walks around school without trying to hide when he has an erection and the girls smile at him and check it out. He gave a presentation like that and the girl in the front row kept looking at it and smiling, lol.

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~ Rye

want a good solution? this used to happen to me when i was younger.... throw your meat between your stomach and your belt or pant line... no1 will be able to tell unless you're wearing a skin tight shirt haha

Eh . . . I have this friend you see . . .

And this friend was dancing with this super hot milf who is his "aunt's friend" at a club. And then he says he got this raging boner. And he saw it fit that he begins rubbing this raging boner on his aunt's friend's . . . eh . . . every where full on Zohan Stylee. He claims the aunt's friend yanked his ass out of that club and into a hotel room faster than his aunt could say, "Where the F is _____ and _______?"

And this other friend, well actually the same friend . . . was walking around in a super market with a "female friend". It's 4th of July food shopping so it's a super hot day . . . right into a icy cold aircon'd shop. His shorts were rubbing him in a funny way and the temperature difference thing. . . . Well, I bet that's what it was . . . So something happens down there. So he puts his hands on his knees like b ball players during watching free throws and goes, "I need to take a rest."

She goes, "What the hell is wrong with you?"
He goes, "Something is going on down there."
She goes, "Are you kidding me? You're popping a boner right now???"
He goes, "What I can say? Why the hell are you all made up, wearing perfume, and wearing that mini skirt while shopping for porter house steaks?'
Her face goes flush.

He gets up after a few seconds but he's still got that crazy ass boner.

She takes him by the hand and takes him down the aisle but finds it fit to let go of his hand and drops her hand lower to his crotch grabs a hold of his still erect dick. She's shocked she's actually doing this so after that one second squeeze. She let's go immediately. Then she stares at him.

Then she grabs him by the hand and practically drags him out of the store, into the parking lot, and into the back seat of that SUV. Those Durangos came with tinted rear windows. That's pretty much exactly the way it happened I bet. I bet he should have kept some condoms in his car but he didn't and I bet she told him that it doesn't matter and I bet even though he told a few people that he didn't . . . well, I bet he did.

Totally agree with Rye Lee who said: As long as you are in a sexual situation with a girl then don't worry. You being aroused will make her more aroused. So don't fight it let it happen.

Stopping worrying and enjoy yourself.