I have a problem with my friends. I've been doing pick-up for about half a year. Now, I'm having much more success with pretty girls but I am losing my friends. I've changed. I want to pick-up woman, I want to try my skills but my friends don't understand my interest in pick-up. I had a plenty of really very good friends but now I am having only one (by the way - he is very shy but very true friend).

I had a lot of woman friends. But nowadays I can't be a friend with a girl. Something in my head wants to seduce her.

How I may solve this situation?

Thank you!

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I am sorry for my bad English.

Okay.

You need to have knowledge in more social things than Game. If you game, you need to do it... but not too much, right?

If I were to start making music, I wouldn't do it 24/7 and never see my mates, right? And I certainly wouldn't talk about it.. if noone cared.

Perhaps you arn't seeing your friends anymore? Or Game is all you talk about. Yes, you CAN and SHOULD change if you WANT to.. but please.. play the game, and don't let the game play you.

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PUA is not just about picking up girls. It is also meant to help you socially as well, and in this case trying to repair the bridge with the friends you lost and making more friends.

Sometimes people will try to hold you down while you are making your transformation. You need to reevaluate what is important in your life. Friends come and go.

I've got a buddy I've known since 5th grade. He's been my best friend for like 15 years. The problem is, we have different things that are important to us and we're drifting in opposite directions. Is it a bad thing? Not at all. I'm not going to stop becoming the person I feel I need to become because my buddy doesn't agree. If I did what he did all the time, I wouldn't be happy. That doesn't mean we aren't friends, it just means we don't chill as often as we used to.

You are your most important person. Don't make concessions for anyone if it means making you unhappy.

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You have two choices here: Repair the connection with your friends or Make new friends to become close with. I would agree with swoop that sometimes your friends will hold you back or become jealous when you change. Maybe it's because you are who they want to be or just the fact that you can go out and meet people and they feel left out. Who knows.

Your happiness is the most important thing though. So if you feel that they are good friends and worth saving, do it. Don't let them drift anymore. True friends are hard to come by. Second, I would like to point out it seems like the game is running you. Just from your short post, I would say you need to re-evaluate how important gaming is in your life and if you really want it to control everything.

Your other option doesn't really need any explaining. Go out, meet new people and enjoy making new friends. I would suggest if you take this route to look for people who enjoy a lot of the same things as you so you don't drift again. I also might suggest you try finding someone who is into sarging and could come out with you when you sarge.

The last comment would be that I think you might want to introduce sarging to your friends. For some reason, a lot of guys still seem against it. I've got two friends who refuse to come out with me even though sarging is exactly what they want to be able to do. Weird. But it's worth a try and could save a friendship.

That's my two cents and I hope it helps you.