ok so i was dancing with this chick and she was giving me some major IOI's(asked my name, if i was there with a girlfriend, if i lived around the area). Then next thing I know she Introduced me to this guy who she said was her boyfriend (he was almost twice my height BTW ) so the first thing i do is give the guy a hand shake then he asks me "so you like my wife?" so im here wondering if its a trick question or something but decide to say "yah shes cool."

Next thing i know she grabs my hand gives me her camera and says "take pictures of me as if i were a celeb". So im there acting like im a camera man and shes posing as if its a photo shoot and were having fun then next thing I know its 3 in the morning and i gotta go home. So give back the camera and debate if i should try and number close and risk getting my face beat in by shaq. In the end i decide its not worth it and give them both a wave good bye. Was this the best thing to do or do you think i should of went for the number close?

You have to ask yourself one question, is she worth getting your ass kicked over? Cus you throw the dice on whether on not that happens with her big whatever he is friend standing right there.

I would have said light-heartedly "So seriously.. thats your bf?" or "You and your boyfriend are weirdos." Whatever ya know? Push her for her feelings on the dude.

If you feel good about it, go for it. If you don't but you're feelin' lucky, go for it. If you don't feel good about it and aren't feeling lucky at the same time, pass. Then, while youre walking away say, brush the dirt off your shoulder.

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Make Moves

Swoop

ask yourself first

CAN YOU TAKE THE GUY!

If so i still would not recommend it

Absolutely. Befriend the guy and make sure he hears you talking to the girl as a friend. The best way??? Using the gay tactic. In the approaching and opening forum i saw an opner (not a great one) that said - If i wasnt gay youd so be mine.
extend it.
If i wasnt gay youd so be mine. Oh well. You can be my straight friend.
This is pretty neat, your flirting. AND there is some pretty nice value reversal here.
Dont ever back down from a girl because of the guys. Game the guys first.

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Man, she was playing you.
She wanted attention from everybody... You and the BF both.
Still, if you really want to get her, take her BFs number and suggest that you go out together. Befriend him and steal his girl at a later stage...

Getting you to take photos of her like shes a celeb? dude she was definately playing you and obviously loves to flirt/male attention.

What you wanted was always gona be a tough ask so dont get yourself down, I think the only way in would be to isolate her and then #close.

man... you wasted your whole night on her too didnt ya??

well first off going the route ya did you shoulda went for the nuumber then if you got your ass kicked told us all about it hahaha im j.k but ya, you probably made the right choice in that aspect. but ya if it was me, after finding out she was there WITH her bf id hang around for a tad longer then excuse myself and say i was going to hang with some friends of mine and open some more girls. if she REALLY wants you shell definately come for you no doubt about that. if not o well shes gotta bf. no point in gettin your head kicked in for a damn phone number so the celeb girl can have fun lol.

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Sounds like she was having a blast teasing you and getting your attention. Some guys aren't the jealous types (I'm one of those non-jealous types), and don't mind if their woman interacts with another guy. One other thought...they may have been looking for a sex toy with a heartbeat...maybe she was sarging for an emotionally unattached MFM threesome partner for the night. I would have tried to number close both her as if you were an old friend, I think.

Gruuve

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Divorced dude having a good life.

I would say: No, don't bother if you wanted results. If you just wanted to do it for experience, then go for it. Make sure you do it in a way that doesn't threaten stretch and pat yourself on the back. There'll be a MILLION more opportunities for you, so don't worry about it this time.

One question: Were the two of them intimate (i.e. were they kissing and groping each other)
Quite possible it was all just an act. I've had that done to me, and done it myself to other people. Couples are funny like that because they have each other as emotional security and have nothing to lose. You on the other hand, do. So it's a game they can't lose.

I agree. It's definitely qualifying if you give in to this request. Try a response like, "I charge $5 per photo."
At this point, I wouldn't bother with her number. Just find another set to open.

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Don't worry about it.

Just as an FYI, I number-closed very smoothly in my opinion with a jealous/asshole-ish boyfriend present Friday night. Waitress friend of my wife and I invited us to her birthday party, introduced us to her boyfriend (whom I killed with kindness), etc. She suggested I tell him about my music and said "email us the link". I didn't have her email addy, so I pulled out my cel phone to text it to myself. She said "I don't check email often though." Perfect opportunity to also say "don't you think communication would be easier if you just gave me your cel#?" So she did...right in front of her jealous BF. I do have to say though, having my wife there also helped de-fuse him...it might not have gone as smoothly if I had been there by myself. He did create drama later though...go see this thread if you're interested in the whole story:

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Gruuve

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Divorced dude having a good life.

Try to have a wing man with you, so he can talk to the man and you to the girl. Then you can #-close without a problem

Try to have a wing man with you, so he can talk to the man and you to the girl. Then you can #-close without a problem