Theres this girl that im lookin to approach tomorrow.

Problem is, we kinda know eachother through facebook, we have chatted once or twice, nothing big. we have NEVER talked in person, but we know who eachother are.

How should i open this up? I dont think i can treat it like any other pickup..

anyone? :/

It depends on how you know her. Ask her to come out with you and some friends for some fun. If she agrees your good, if not then you need to build up more attraction.

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again, we dont know eachother at all besides facebook chat. and yes, i definatly need to build up more attraction. I just need a different way to approach, or at least i think i do.

well... i would treat it like you already have known her in person. She obviously recognizes you, and is probably waiting for you to stop making it so awkward. You already know her, so it's going to be near impossible to blow this one out. I would send her a message on facebook telling her how rude it was of her for not saying hi when you saw each other, then flirt a little bit.

The question is, do you go to school with her or what? Where will you see her? I'm confused as far as that goes...

yea we go to college together. she is in one of my lecture classes, but she sits really far away and due to the mass of people i have never been able to talk to her in person. so i dont know her at all.

she added me on facebook.... and i asked her a question about a test once. thats it.


i really dont know if approaching her as if i know her is the best idea..

id have to agree with bigred. if u invite her out with a group of friends then its not as awkward for u both. if she isn't flirting back. then u can split off back into your group of friends.

I would say yes to the going out but if you're not comfortable enough yet, try building a little more attraction and comfort. Next time you want to start a convo with her on facebook try using one of the many opinion openers you can find down in the "Online Sarging section" then continue the conversation on in hopes of getting a phone number or a screenname for AIM or MSN or what-not. Chatting it up on IM's or TXTing should help you build that needed attraction. But be forewarned to not chat too long before asking her to go out with a big group. *make sure she knows this is a 'friendly' event, it will make her curious and out on that date... BE A FUN GUY! hope that helps

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