What are you insights?
Techniques?
Thoughts?

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Go in, keep it simple, small chunk it. The first 10 sets don't count. Open up ask for directions, then after a few sets and your in, open ask for directions then say by the way are you good with relationships? go into a canned opener, see if it hooks and she replys, then hit her with a cliff hanger dhv, if that hooks, just brake into rappor and talk, demonstrate the qualities of a alpha male in a story. Get her to contribute, Ask her if shes good with fashion eventually close her, talk a little more and leave. Make sure you give your self appropriate time constraints and things. The best sets, from experience are girls that are new to the city, backpacker hot hb chicks.. They are easy because they have NO value, the second they align with you and you do a good story, your in.

The more daily savy girls are harder to get, but try, you'll fail at first, no big deal. I'm just getting back in the game, I've flogged 10 sets just like that, due to not being in field for 1 month. Thats what relationships can do.

Oh heres a huge one, DONT DONT DONT try to impress her, just be like 'oh, whatever.. your in my time, i dont care.' and reward her for any ioi she gives you, and reject any iod. Keep it simple, if she says something wierd, be like ' um ok ' and try to get her back in your frame.

Theres alot too it man. But keep trying, even if you fail. If you fail your mind remembers how you failed and later you can understand why you failed, and you can fix it and go back in do it right.

Oh when your asking for directions or whatever opener, start using kino with it too, on the open. Get used to it! hard road!

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what are some good ways for rewarding IOIs and not rewarding IODs

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"What doesn't kill us makes us stronger."
"Do not fear the unknown - embrace it."

There are tones of ways to reward ioi's and punish IOD's.

She gives you ioi's simply reward her iois with your iois. In A1 dont reward iois just neg her, past that yeah reward her ioi's with your iois. Turn to face her when she talks. Etc.

With IOD's u can do several things. You can simply ignore them and keep going, or reply with negs. Also if this is happening in the comfort stage u can doing things like jelousy plot lines and freeze outs.

All of the questions most people have on this forum are in the book Mystery Method. I truely is the best start in my opinion.


-Jam

If she gives you IOI's just be friendly, talk to her, share a story.. If shes giving you IOD's bust her balls and teeze her, if she becomes more weird, then you've done something wrong, step out say pleasure meeting you. You could try to plow, I've seen guys have a cool amount of success with it, but theres no real reason to. You wanna be able to have her find you interesting right away, if you start giving out negative signs, she won't be as inclined to do anything. It dosn't really matter, all in all your yourself, you dont have to please her. She could have problems of her own. Like today I did some sarging and theres girls that blew open for me, and other girls just lookt at me wierd, like ' what the f.. ' who cares!

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Im gonna do some mall sarging today and Im going to try some stuff out, and as well as pool sarging considering there both by my apartment, so Ill be back later with my field report...thanks everyone who posted!

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Excuse me can i get a females opinon,

My cousin sabrina's birthday is on Tuesday, The problem is i have no clue what to get a 9 year old on her birthday. All i know is she does balerina and she means the world to me..
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There is a couple of things you could do with this just feel out the situation, no matter what she should help you but sometimes they get too serious on you, its all about your cousin sabrina and not about anything else, what i do in this situation is say you know what my cousin sabrinas bday was last month and i got her a dancing build a bear, i just wanted to come flirt with you,...

Some girls really get into it and start shopping around with you, this is good, make sure to neg them by saying don't tell me you were one of those girls that played with barbies when you were nine. cause sabrina is over that. Then make sure to talk about her ask her normal questions like what shes doing at the mall, then say your not one of those high mateninece girls are you? If she picks out something cheap then make sure you tell her listen Sabrina really does mean the world to me i really want to make sure shes happy on her birthday. Make sure you buy something expensive in front of her and make sure you keep the receipt so that you can return it. Make sure you thank the girl and tell her you had fun shopping and ask how you could continue this? This has worked well for me in the mall, on my phone game, and on day twos.

dude that last portion is my sarging story, every friggin time i try to run one of these sets i feel like i always get a weird look

the only time i dont is when i run a set about havin a dog and not knowin what to name it, always gets a girls interest, but then ive got no where to go with it and i keep referrin back to the damn imaginary dog...

dude that last portion is my sarging story, every friggin time i try to run one of these sets i feel like i always get a weird look

the only time i dont is when i run a set about havin a dog and not knowin what to name it, always gets a girls interest, but then ive got no where to go with it and i keep referrin back to the damn imaginary dog...

IMPACT.. im pretty sure its your delivery thats off.. most girls respond to many openers that are out there.. with your imaginary dog routine why dont you go into a story about why you need help naming it such as.. "before this dog i had another one.. blah blah blah" make her go through some emotions

cool guys i was looking for an opener like this good one

I'm a bit in the dark with what to do after you opened. Lets say I open at a mall or anywhere for that matter with one of Neil's openers "Can I get your opinion on something?" so what do I saw after that? Ok she gives me her opinion, but whats next?

Isra.....what's next is conversational threads. Conversation/Storytelling spiked with DHVs, negs, pushing and pulling, kino escalation, etc.

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Because I have a few trusted openers that I have practiced I just modify these for the mall setting.

Instead of prefacing with: "My friends over there were arguing about..."

Say: "I just got off the phone with my friend and he...."