I'm still trying to build my confidence to the point that I can open anyone anywhere. Got a ways to go, but here's an opener that fits my personality quite well I think. I have not field tested it yet, but will start (I am testing it online though).

"So, you are gorgeous on the outside. But we all know that what's on the outside can change in the blink of an eye, right? So...let's pretend you became horribly disfigured in a car accident tommorrow....what do you have on the inside that would make you so irresistible that no one would even care?"

Or, would this be better used in the "building attraction" stage rather than as an opener? Is this too deep of an opener?

Gruuve

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I reckon attraction rather than opening. It is a bit heavy, and the topic of being disfigured I personally found a bit of a negative thread, however it's worth field testing, I may be totally wrong and the girls may love it, you may have them qualifying themselves to you and more.

It's also pretty direct-game so the success of the opener will depend more upon how you deliver it, your frame and your body language than the opener itself.

Yea man I agree with Gamble, the whole disfiguried part in my opinion was pretty heavy, I wouldnt use it as an opener, that could work in the attraction phase. Imagine if some girl came up to you and asked you that, you might feel a little "put off". But let me know how it goes...

eh, not something i would use but you should try it out.

it's just that that whole thing about being disfigured is a bit much for an opener, and the question itself seems to deep for an opener.

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Love John

"The cure for one-itis, PUAs like to say, is to go out and have sex with a dozen other girls- and then see if this flower is still so special." Style

No no. its to try hard, as it is now anyways. You could play with it though and I could see it working well in attraction phase.

Like the others have said, stay away from negative visuals. It couples your first impression with bad energy/ feelings. very very few girls are turned on by weird shit like that. You don't want those kinda girls anyways, cigarette scars are forever! Plus your wife would be like wtf? lol

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Swoop

Yeah, I think I agree with most of the comments here on reflection...that's too deep for an opener, better for the attraction phase.

I may be 42, but I've still got a lot to learn dudes! I'm glad I found this forum!

Cheers,
Gruuve

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