I was out at the mall and my friends were gaming..a couple of HBs. Both would be HB8. Their game was somewhat dying due to a language barrier. Fortunately I was there and spoke their language. Therefore they became my set and I gamed them and got a number. Unfortunately it was the number of the obstacle not the target. My target does not have a cell phone.

I call the number, trying to set a day two. "I am going to the mall, I forgot to buy a shirt, come along and join me" They were busy on the chosen day. Therefore could not go.

The next day the obstacle calls me...regarding phone calls she has been recieving asking if it was me calling. It was not me, I told told her so.

I then switch the conversation by stating my interest.
"Lets go out on a double date, I'll be with your sister(my target) and Ill bring a friend for you." She replies she has a bf but her sister is single. She then tells me her sister will call me.

Her sister (my target) does call me, a few minutes later, saying that she is down to go out on a date, and asks to bring her other sister who is supposedly hot and single for my friend. I accept and set the day for monday.

Monday comes...I call up the obstacle, at 5 to verify the date with her sister...I hit the voicemail, I dont leave a message. I wait half an hour and I call once more...I hit the voicemail again..I dont leave a message.

I have other alternatives that night, but were hoping to go on the date... so therefore I call one more time to see if it was still on..voicemail. The sister then calls me back.. She says she is watching a movie at her house at the moment...I asks to speak with her sister(my target), but she replies that she is upstairs..I say okay have her call me.

Minutes later I receive a phone call from private number...its a guy..who says to stop calling that number the obstacles number...because it is his phone. I told him He may have had the wrong number. but he was persistent that it is the right number.

I take that as a sign to forget about the date...I therefore set off with my alternative plan and hang out with coworkers and go rock climbing..I never got a phone call from my target.

Obviously I made a mistake somewhere. I would like to hear peoples opinions and see how I can better it. I want to learn from my mistakes.

I am trying to play direct game when setting a day two. I am not familiar with that system, but would like to learn more. How does one asks directly for day two?

Also...my current plan is to wait a couple of weeks then call the number again and try to set a date with the sister. What do you think?

I say move on, don't call the number again. That's just going to make you seem desperate. You seem to have gotten buyer's remorse. They were into you, but now you're the creepy guy that won't stop calling. Move on.

MOven on THEY WASNT THAT PREETY any way .. I was there open the set. haha.



Magic J .

Yup... move on.

Sorry about your luck bro.

If you need another opinion - move on! Pretty conclusive I'd say. Sorry, better luck next time.

Hey, man i hope you are re-tracing your steps. Everyone is saying move on but you need to realize how needy (AFC) it must have sounded for you to call her so much. And then for it to be a dudes phone.

You had alternate plans, and i understand you wanted the date but she is probably thinking man what a chump he'll be at home waiting for me. If you made a great connection she'll be calling you.

Cat string is the truth.

-SC

If it was clear that the target was at least interested in you when you asked her for her number and she didn't have a phone, you should have at least given her your number as well as taking the obstacle's cellphone number. Its not a definite that she will even use it, but it opens up the possibility of her calling you. I don't know for sure what you did wrong exactly, but for a start, you should have shot her your number and not called 10 times, thats never a good sign.

You never know, maybe it could have just been one of those days where something comes up and wasn't around her sisters phone. If she had your number, she could have called you after the date was missed.

Nonetheless, move on.

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