In a complicated Situation... BACKGROUND STORY!

I meet a few girls. Makes friends with them, but games the HB. After a month of hanging out and such, HB comes to house, Lots of Kino, she leans over, I kiss her (no resistance), fooled around a bit after that, later she tells me she met this guy and really digs him (ie: Me) but she isn't over her ex. Later she says she want to just "continue like before" (unforetunately I misinterpreted what she meant, lol) Also she has this really dumb 3 month rule- needs to get to know someone for 3 months as a friend first before going out with them...

ANYWAY:

Girl writes:

"BLABLA (stuff about her hurting my feelings- she thinks she did, no idea where that came from, i tell her she didn't)
Anyway, Im glad I didnt say anything to upset you then.

The situation from my point of view? I dont know how to read your mind, but here's what Im thinking: I see you as a guy friend that may or may not become something more in the future. I want to get to know you better as a friend. And then by January 5th, (after approx. 3 months of knowing you), I'll decide on if I still see you as a friend, and see how you feel about me. Because who knows, by that time, everything might've changed due to us getting to know each other better.

Now, define for me what YOU think. "


MY QUESTION is:
How should I respond, if at all? Should I kick her in the head/give her a good freezeout? She assumes herself to be in an upper position in the message (ie: I'll see what I feel THEN see how you feel, balbal) so should I give her a C/F response that brings the power position back to me? Other suggestions?

INPUT PLEASE :D:D

C/F response for sure. You need to assume dominance. Then: freeze out after the response. In fact let her know you are doing it.

"Hey listen, stop worrying about hurting me....maybe start worrying about annoying me by worrying so much instead! Go figure yourself out..."

Then: move on. This will trigger some jealousy but thats not the point of it. You want to show her simply that you don't need her. Then if after some time you decide you still want her, command her out with you! "Hey meet e at starbucks at 5"

etc.

hehe, good, just what i had in mind :D
only thing is, im friends with her friends (and they live together, so they come in a bunch)
So if we were to hangout (ie: prolly gonna go figure skating this weekend), give her no attention and give my friend/her friends all the attention, good plan?

ok now this is just my advice, but i would say do not freeze her out. i personally would continue treating her as a "friend", but drive her crazy with kino and any other tricks you know she is crazy about. maybe even mention a couple of other dates you have planned just so she knows she is not the only one on your mind.

basically tease her like crazy and dont even discuss your feelings about her until she brings it up, at which point you will have her in the palm of your hand. all freezing out will do is take you completely out of the picture. just act like you dont give a shit about what she thinks, and she will go crazy trying to change that.

good luck man

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HAHA, that'd work too
It's kind of funny too, cuz I took her home the next day, and right after that I went to a Concert with my Friend (who is SHB... too bad we're just good friends :S ), LOL!