Hey, whatsup everyone,
Long post, but good reading, I promise.
Here's my situation. I'm a college kid and I've been sitting next to this really gorgeous girl for the whole semester (like 3 months now). At first I was just flirting with her etc., then one day I asked her to lunch after class. We went to lunch, had a great time, and she seems like a cool girl, she really opened up. I payed for the lunch (go ahead, judge me) and walked her back to her apartment. She gave me a hug and told me a smelled good (can't be a bad sign, right?) and I was like, "I'm going to a party later, you should hang out" very casually "give me a call" but I never bothered to get her number which was sort of a mistake.
Of course she never called me, girls never do. Since then, I've been talking to her during class and stuff, and she's giving me a good feeling. Even when i'm not sitting next to her I can see her laughing at my lame jokes out of the corner of my eye.
Ok so anyway, last thursday, she was being real flirty during class and when noone was sitting at her table for one part of class, she came and joined mine on her own accord.(i have the class tues and thursday) i got her number after class and told her I was busy thursday (party day at my school) and would call her on friday or sat.
I decided to play it cool and not call her at all.
So i came into class today hoping she would give me shit for not calling her, but she was very standoffish about even talking to me. She does this somedays and somedays she is really outgoing. VERY INCONSISTENT. At the latter half of class (the part where she was sitting alone at the table like last time) I asked her if she was gonna sit there all alone. She replied "yeah, i always do". and i was like "ok whatev"

Here's my theory. She is an absolutely gorgeous girl, but she occasionally breaks out with acne on her face. When i took her out to lunch she mentioned she was embarassed about her acne, and I told her she looked fine that day. On this last tuesday, she was definitely broken out and I noticed her rubbing her face in an uncomfortable fashion (like all kids with acne do). Is it possible she wanted to avoid me because of her face? I've done the same thing with girls. I really feel I have a connection with this one, and I can't stop thinking about her, which is a bad thing...driving me a little nuts.
My plan is to call her up tomorrow and ask if she wants to study together before the big test on tuesday (no class this thursday). I feel like she can't say no, she failed the last one. Let me know your thoughts.

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You made a few mistakes...some you pointed out yourself.

Telling her you were going to call her and then not was a mistake. Its okay to make someone wait...but if you tell her you will do something and then flake, you break some trust. Maybe you coulda said something like

"Well...maybe I'll call you this weekend...or maybe I'll be having way too much fun and you wont even cross my mind! We'll see! Tell me...do you feel lucky?" Yeah thats a bit corny..but anythings funny if you can deliver it. Remember: Laughter does not have to follow your joke, if you can get her laughing regardless of what you say, it will stack and then it wont matter!

Anyway: yes...she could be self conscious. DONT NEG HER ABOUT HER ACNE! But...negging her about being so self-conscious could be gold

I would keep flirting with her. If she flirts back: shes still interested and attracted. Then: do your thing! Read some stuff and dont assume you know what you are doing. Even I have more to learn and I've read anything you can name

i called her up, and got a voicemail, in which i left a short message "Hey Maria, It's John from English Class, give me a call back".
The test is on tuesday, and I want to ask her to study.
If she doesn't call me back, should I give up on this one?

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Ah...another mistake. Keep the ball in your court. "Hay Maria, Its john from english class. I'll try you again later"

Otherwise its like "you didnt call me! *cry cry cry*". Fix this by giving her shit for not calling you back....make it look like you dont care and she fucked up...but make it funny. Good luck with that one though =/.

Stop making AFC mistakes dude you need to do some reading =(