Okay guys, im legal and want to get this whole Virginity thing out the way.

I've got close sooooooo many times but i just fuck up, partly with LMR and mostly because I dont know how to escalate.

Okay this is as far as I can go, I can get the girl on my bed me on top of her making out, clothes all still on. Now what? lol

It sounds stupid but we have to lead and I can't lead if I dont know what to do next?

Do I try and unbutton her pants? or what?

HELP !

Get this virginity thing out of the way? Why rush it? Make sure you make your first time something mermorable - i wish i did. Dont rush into it.

And kino escalation should start 15 seconds into a convo with a girl you are sarging. And just build it up. Before you go for a f close you need to be fully comfortable with kissing and touching at the least. You say you hit a lot of resistance. Why do you think this is? From what you have described to us you just want to lose your V. The girl may suspect this. Not many decent girls will screw you so you can lose your V. Because thats what your describing. A screw. Wouldnt you prefer have sex on your first time?
Anyway back to the LMR. Your probably getting resistance because she thinks you just want to lose your virginity. And thats it. Not only do you need to change your outlook on it, but also you need to make her feel this isnt the case. Demonstrate you love her. Do not say it. Demo it. And give it a lil reversal. When your making out on a bed - say - you can kiss me but im not letting you have sex with me. She would probably never heard this before. Genetically, she is expecting you to push. Her life experience - will be expecting you to push. Pull. Its going to leave her confuzzled to say the least.

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Nooo its not like that lol, no-one knows that I'm still a virgin and yeah I do want it to be memorable and its with a special person, but i mean how do i transition from kissing to the next stage? and what is that next stage? etc etc

Cheers

Check out the kino escalation ladder:

http://www.directnaturalgame.com/Techni ... adder.html

Hope that helps...

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-That's my two cents...

Escalation in bed can be a simple thing. If you're already on top and controlling the situation then you're in already. Start to slow down your kissing and make it more intimate. Try moving away from the mouth, kissing her neck up and down, try nibbling on her ear, cup the back of her head and neck in your hand, etc. There are a lot of small tricks you can do while making out that turn girls on instead of being like AFCs and immediately groping the breasts. Why feel them up with clothes on when you can get their top off first and turn them on EVEN MORE by playing with their bare tits? Anyways - after doing some tricks while making out, make sure you are reading the situation. Pull away and read the look on her face, check to see how intensely she is kissing you. From here, start moving your hand around the bottom of her shirt, i usually slide my hand up a little along her back. Its sensual and her shirt starts to come off. If you can do this fast enough (experts only) run your hand up her back and on your way down unclip her bra. *You have max 2 seconds to do this, it should be more of a sleight of hand. I've had girls who didn't even realize their bra was unclipped until I had lifted their shirt and bra off at once. back to the subject - Once the bra is unclipped, just make out for a little bit longer and either get her on top or if your sitting up, take both hands and start sliding them up her sides, lifting her shirt. She'll know whats up and should raise her arms - VICTORY for step 1.

Work on this first before you worry too much about taking the pants off. If this works and you feel like you can move on, just start unbuttoning her pants while your making out.

Keep it Smooth,

Poetry