Ive been gaming some girl for a while (spoke about her in my other threads) and we where on the bus a few weeks ago and well i suppose its easier if i just show our convo

Me-Yer i dunno what my plans are 2night but ill text you if im coming
HB-Why have you even got my number?
Me-Cause u texted me off it dur!
HB- OMG NO I DIDNT!!!
Me- Well clearly otherwise how would i have it ?
Hb-OMG! I SOOOO DIDNT!!!!
Me-ooo what you getting all defensive hey? calm down its not as if i use it...its just annother name in ma phonebook
Hb- Omg i hate you your sooo mean *with a huge grin on her face and laughing*

i now that shes into me cause ive K closed her like evertime we go out. But like she keeps putting up this sort of "bitch sheild" cause shes hot and gets hit on everytime we go out yet i allways end up with her.
So i negged her when were out the other night with:

Me- See this whole "im a bitch" facade that you put up at first was cute and kind of funny but now its just.........no" *Roll off*

Then later that night i was stood against a wall with my foot on it facing the club and 3 girls in a circle infront of me. And she walks over and just grabs some random lad from next to me shes never spoke 2 and goes come on lets dance and starts sexy dancing infront of me on him so i just ignored her and kept talking to the girls. She walked past and i had to throw annother neg so i used "aww isnt it cute how your trying to make me jelous? But if you take a step back into reality youl realize you just look foolish"
And guess what later on i K closed her again *After the 3 in the circle mind wasnt letting them go to waste*

WHY! is she being like that? does anyone have a clue??

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She's playing the bitch card the same reason you're playing the asshole card...it's girl game bro. Problem is you have two competing frames that don't go together and neither are willing to budge.

Try and ignore her frame next time. When you begin kissing her and she throws up a bitch shield or shit test or frame reversal or wtvr just ignore it. Don't use a witty comeback or freeze out or jealousy plotline since this type of girl will just reciprocate it. Also don't say or do something that has you fall into her frame. Simply ignore it and continue forward all the way to the close.

Hope this helps

Psych

Cheers bro sounds pritty tight i might give it a go next time i see her.
only thing is if i ignore the frame and she comes out with a real bitchey comments and i dont respond wont 1 of 2 things happen
1 She will give up being a bitch
or
2 she will become more of a bitch as she feels shes in control

she comes out with these comments like 5 times a night yet other times is complimenting me so its abit wierd =/

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